I earn around ¥30 million a year myself, so I’ve reached the point where I can’t feel satisfied unless my partner earns at least ¥100 million.
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I don’t actually need the money, but I really enjoy it when someone spends lavishly on me—giving me a large allowance, expensive gifts, taking me to high-end restaurants, and not worrying about the cost. That’s why I can’t quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
So I don’t feel attracted to someone who earns about the same as I do. I’ve been registered for two months in the Platinum class. At first, I received around ten offers all at once, but now they only come occasionally, and even when I get one, I’m not motivated.
My regular papa (a male supporter) has been seeing me for two years. He earns about the same as I do, we meet twice a month, one of those meetings involves an adult relationship (intimate), and he gives me about ¥1.5 million worth of gifts a year. But it still feels unsatisfying.
People who earn over ¥100 million spend money on me completely differently. However, they also drop me much more quickly.
How can I change this side of myself? I’m starting to wonder if I should just quit papa-katsu.
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I don’t know how old you are, but earning that much on your own is really difficult, so that’s impressive. If you’re making that money through your work, that’s even more admirable.
You can probably buy whatever you want yourself, and you don’t need to rely on men for anything.
I hope you meet a man who makes you think, “For this person, I’d be willing to support him!” It doesn’t necessarily have to be through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan); it would be nice if you met someone naturally.
I get the feeling that you’ve only been looking at how much money someone has or how much they’ll spend on you, and that you’ve never really fallen for someone as a person. Maybe you’ve also never been genuinely loved by someone.
I hope that outside of papa-katsu, you’ll find someone who loves you for more than just money—and that you’ll be able to love them for more than money, too.
Oh, and I do think money is important, so keep making as much as you can.
As for your question, “Can I change my personality?”—you don’t seem to want to change it, and I don’t think you need to.
You don’t seem to be seriously troubled right now, and it also comes across that you really love who you are. If that’s the case, then what’s wrong with that?
Go ahead and work hard to land a papa (a male supporter) who earns over 100 million yen, and keep telling yourself, “I really am worth that much!”
I think you’re happy, and I can understand that money is necessary for that. But I also know that there are things in life that aren’t just about money.
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Does “an income of around 30 million yen” mean per month, monthly income, or annual income?
If you have that much, I imagine there are probably quite a few men earning over 100 million yen a year in your circle. Are you saying you’re not interested in them?
I think you should probably quit papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
Take care.
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If you can find a papa who’s worth 100 million yen or more, your problems are solved—no worries.
Following my own way of thinking, once I’ve decided on a goal, I just keep moving toward it without being afraid of failure or setbacks.
If I were you, I’d use every possible means to meet people who seem wealthy—people like Masayoshi Son or Yusaku Maezawa. I’d even try getting a job at their company as a secretary. I’d also give working at a Ginza lounge a shot. Basically, I’d try absolutely everything I could think of.
You don’t have to change your personality. Set off on a journey to find a man worth 100 million yen. Good luck!
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It’s a game of seeing how long you can string him along, lol.
If that’s what you enjoy, then fair enough—but there probably aren’t many men who’d enjoy being treated that way, so I guess getting hooked gives you a thrill you can’t quit. Who knows, though, lol.
An annual income of ¥30 million is pretty impressive! I think you’re allowed to look proud. That said, once your desire for money and material things is satisfied, you gradually start seeking fulfillment on a more emotional level.
Try searching for “young and cute me.” It was a topic of discussion a little while ago, so you may have heard of it, lol.
Anyway, I think you should try looking at things from more perspectives instead of fixating on your partner’s assets, income, or short-term exchanges of money and resources. You’ve earned the right to look proud, after all, lol.
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Mac’s answer is great!
I’m not sure whether it’s an addiction or something else, but as a woman, I feel she might be better off pursuing a relationship where she really engages with a man on a deeper level.
Since she seems to have dated someone with an annual income of around 100 million yen before, I think she should keep that in mind and try approaching things from that angle next time.
Her income seems to be about the same as Mac’s, so maybe she should ask Mac for some guidance（笑）
Or, when it comes to truly engaging with someone, Paper Airplane might actually have the edge.
Oh, what about me?
I think I’d be a good fit. Even if she’s young, I’m good at teaching people how to carry themselves（笑）
One woman I dated even told me, “Maybe I really was just a country bumpkin!”
The problem is, my annual income isn’t quite up to 100 million yen yet（笑）
And none of the women I’m currently seeing seem likely to ask to cancel our arrangements, so I guess I’m out.
Sorry!
P.S.
Mac,
That stress is actually a good thing（笑）
It gets your brain fired up—and even gives you a boost below the waist!
Wait, maybe it’s the other way around（笑）
I think it’ll be just right for you, Mac（笑）
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Do you really feel that way—wanting to make the other person happy and be of help to them? And can you expect the same from the other person?
Most people do this because they need to and have made up their minds to go through with it…
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I don’t think you can change your personality.
I’m concerned that some male members who make you an offer may end up disappointed—and could even be considered victims. For that reason, I think it would be best for you to stop doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
The phrase “know when you have enough” probably isn’t in your dictionary.
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It doesn’t seem to be a personality issue so much as a matter of intellectual ability. It may be difficult to become smarter at this point, but for now, I’d suggest practicing critical thinking.
Good luck.
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