I’d like to hear men’s opinions.
I’m not particularly fond of sex itself. However, since I receive an allowance, I do want to make sure my partner is satisfied in return.
I’ve realized that if I hold back or seem unenthusiastic, he may ask for a second round or the mood may turn awkward, leading to even more things I dislike.
So ideally, I’d like to have sex that leaves him highly satisfied in one go. What kind of sex is most satisfying for men?
I know this may be a very rude question, but I’m genuinely struggling with this and would really appreciate your honest opinions.
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What matters most to me is how intensely the woman orgasms.
At a club, each person’s goal is clear—the man wants an adult relationship (intimate), while the woman wants money—so the key is to climax intensely and repeatedly in a short amount of time.
However, pretending is the worst. She should genuinely climax as intensely as possible, even sweating all over. From a woman’s perspective, it’s probably better to reach climax quickly.
> “I don’t really like sex itself.”
Then, all the more reason to focus on climaxing quickly so the encounter ends sooner—ideally, so quickly and intensely that the man is delighted and completely captivated.
As the question suggests, if the man feels bored or unsatisfied, the encounter will probably only last longer.
A club isn’t a sex service, so you don’t need special service, techniques, or acting. It’s important to relax, let go, and allow yourself to feel. The appeal of a club is that every woman has her own natural, completely unique way of responding, so I think it’s fine to follow your own natural style.
> “A woman who’s still a virgin at heart.”
That’s a good way to put it. There really are women who don’t want to open the door to intimacy and would rather keep it closed.
You don’t have to open that door—but as a man, I admit I’d be interested in opening it.
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Looking back on everything, unfortunately, I never found sex in an allowance arrangement that was better than the passionate sex I had in my private life.
That said, there is a compromise.
It’s “abnormal play.” And with enough effort, you can make almost anything work.
If the conventional route isn’t an option, take the unconventional one.
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I feel most satisfied when sex comes with a genuine sense that the other person is attracted to me.
Of course, receiving an allowance is a given and nothing unusual, but I lose interest when it feels like, “I’m only doing this because I’m getting paid,” or “He’s at least better than the other men I’ve met, so I guess I’ll let him have me.”
That said, if you simply don’t enjoy sex itself, activities through a dating club may not be right for you.
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That sounds tough, especially if you don’t enjoy sex.
I think your attitude is wonderful. Just give it your all and don’t cut corners.
Do your best to understand what your partner wants. If you can’t really feel it, just pretend you do a little (lol).
Women who tell you it feels good are the best.
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To be honest, I don’t really want to have sex with a woman who simply doesn’t enjoy it.
That said, if she wants to learn to enjoy sex, I’ll do what I can as a man because I want her to enjoy it too.
You don’t have to like it already—but please have sex with the desire to come to enjoy it.
Ultimately, I think sex is most satisfying when both people are having a good time.
Good luck.
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