How many male club members are in their mid-50s or older?
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Until now, I’d only received offers from men in their late 30s to late 40s, but the other day I got an offer from a man in his mid-50s for the first time and met him.
When we met, I felt the age gap quite strongly, so I’m thinking of turning down anyone in their mid-50s or older from now on. But what percentage of club members are in that age range?
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Some people in their 50s look youthful, while some people in their 30s look like old men.
(There are even people like Tom Cruise out there…)
You’ve only met one person in their 50s—the first person to make you an offer—so I think it’s a little too soon to generalize and say, “People in their 50s are…”
I think it’s fine to set an age limit to avoid mismatches, but it wouldn’t hurt to meet a few more people in their 50s before making that call.
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Rejecting offers from men in their 50s and older
rather than
meeting them first, then deciding not to meet again if it doesn’t work out—
isn’t the latter a better strategy?
It depends on what your most important goal is, but increasing the number of times you take action tends to improve your chances of success.
If you apply filters too early, given the current age distribution of male members, I think you’ll have fewer opportunities.
— It’s me.
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The biggest shame would be for both of you to feel that meeting was a waste of time.
To avoid mismatches, please make sure to clearly state your age requirements.
That said, it should be obvious even without researching that the largest age group at dating clubs is men in their 40s and 50s.
Since you’d be turning away about half of them, you’ll naturally receive fewer offers.
I also get the impression that women who set such restrictions either aren’t particularly fond of older men or are only interested in the allowance.
So, even though I’m a male member in my 40s, I think I’d probably steer clear of women who impose overly strict age limits.
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Exactly! With a 36-year age gap, it looks unnatural no matter how you see it（笑）
It seems men’s profiles now automatically show their actual age, so if you feel someone isn’t a good fit for you, I think it’s perfectly fine to decline the offer.
Apparently, about half of the male members fall into that category, so you may well receive another offer. The men will probably just think, “That’s a shame,” and move on to the next person.
Even so, some women enter relationships because they see it as an allowance-based arrangement and are able to keep things transactional. They also feel that older men are less likely to deceive them and are safer.
There’s a 48-year age gap between us, so we look completely unnatural together. But strangely enough, as the relationship continues, people start saying, “You two are such a perfect match!”（笑）
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It’s best to set the age limit at people in their 30s or early 40s.
Both men and women are probably being told they look 15–20 years younger as a courtesy, so you should set the limit considerably younger than you think.
Also, having an age limit can make a better impression. It’s better than making people think you’ll take anyone.
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Apparently, it’s 49% for men over 50.
https://universe-club.jp/men/male-data/
Regardless of the percentage, you should simply say that you’re not comfortable with it if you don’t like it.
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