What’s going through a papa’s mind when he schedules a date on Christmas Eve?
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I know it may sound selfish, but I’d like to continue seeing him while turning this down. I’d appreciate any advice on the best way to handle it. Thank you.
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I’d say, “I’m spending Christmas with my family—with my papa and mama,” haha.
Once you’ve built a relationship with your papa, I think it’s better to tell him early on that you have a boyfriend. You’ll feel more at ease that way.
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I’m Potassium, and I’m nonreligious.
I don’t understand why you’re so oddly fixated on Christmas when you don’t even seem to be Christian.
If you are Christian, go to church! You can tell your papa (a male supporter) that, too.
If I were singing, I’d probably go with “O Holy Night” or a three-part arrangement of “Hallelujah!” Those are what Christmas feels like to me.
Oh, by the way, I’m meeting my papa (a male supporter) on Christmas Eve. The reason is simple: people-watching is fun, and there will probably be lots of special meals〜!
That’s just my personal opinion.
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If you’re in a serious, romantic relationship, it’s perfectly normal for him to make plans with you on Christmas.
But if the relationship is more casual and detached, he probably isn’t thinking that deeply about it—he may simply be free that day.
I spent Christmas Eve with a woman last year, but that was partly because I happened to be free and because she invited me, saying she had nothing else to do.
From a man’s perspective, Christmas dates are nothing but a hassle: hotel rates are more than double, and restaurants are much harder to book.
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Don’t say a word about how you’ll be spending the day yourself.
Just keep insisting:
“Papa, at least on Christmas, you should spend time with the person who matters most to you—your wife? Your girlfriend?”
He’ll probably say something like, “But you’re important to me too.”
When he does, just smile and reply, “Nope!”
Keep smiling the whole time. And without saying anything unnecessary, stick to the idea that “Papa is super popular.”
It’s me.
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I guess they just want to enjoy themselves and be happy.
They have very little awareness that they’re papa-katsu men.
They’ll say things like, “I have to go back to my parents’ place” or “I’m meeting up with my seminar group,” I suppose.
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Haha, things rarely work out exactly the way we want, do they? lol
I wouldn’t overthink it. I think you can just say you already have plans with a friend.
The one thing you probably shouldn’t say is:
“I want to keep seeing you, but I don’t want to spend Christmas Eve together!”
lol
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That’s tough. He sounds like the romantic type of papa (a male supporter) who places a lot of importance on Christmas.
Since Christmas Eve falls on a Saturday this year, saying “I have work” probably won’t fly.
If you’re a student, you could turn him down by saying you have a shift at a cake shop.
Or just say you’re having a party with some female friends, and send your papa a photo that day when you actually get together with them.
To avoid leaving any original photo data, take a screenshot and send that instead. If you’re going to lie, stick to your story.
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