This is about the income section of my male profile.
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I earn a fairly substantial income, but on my profile I list it as “¥20 million or more per year.”
(This is lower than my actual income. The profile’s income options start at under ¥10 million, then ¥10 million or more, and increase in ¥10 million increments after that.)
I’m currently debating whether to change it from “¥20 million or more per year” to “¥30 million or more per year” (which would still be lower than my actual income).
The reason I list an income lower than my actual earnings is that I’m worried that if I put down a very high income, a woman might think, “He earns that much, and this is all the allowance he’s offering?” when I tell her the allowance.
I’m considering changing it to “¥30 million or more” because I feel that income is also one of a man’s attractive qualities, and I wondered whether women might find me more impressive. (Incidentally, I’ve never bragged about my income to anyone.)
I realize this is a rather pathetic question, but I’d really appreciate any advice.
Thank you.
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Thanks. I see—I just had a great idea.
I make ¥10 million a year, but I should just inflate that to ¥30 million or so, right? Then, if I keep working on improving my dating game like I have been, I’ll be even more popular. Is that really all it takes to be popular...? Wow, it’s easy.
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You want them to have high expectations, but not when it comes to the allowance?
Then maybe you shouldn’t keep raising their expectations little by little.
If you want to write “30 million yen” and get them excited, then surprise them with an even bigger allowance—why not?
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Some women may focus solely on annual income.
And there are also people who don’t know about assets in addition to income, so I think staying at 20 million yen is perfectly fine.
If you’re going to increase it, I’d say go all the way to 100 million yen or more.
You’ll probably get lots of “That’s wonderful!” messages.
Hyenas swarming around the money are scary. Oh—fruit flies, I mean…
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If that’s how you feel, it’s probably better to set it at 2,000.
If you don’t want to give a woman 50,000 or more, making a big deal about your high income could actually work against you.
Generally speaking, the lower a papa’s income appears to be, the lower the woman’s expectations will be. So, on the flip side, there’s a better chance she’ll think, “He earns less, yet he did this much for me!” and see it positively.
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I do think a high income is one of a man’s attractive qualities. I don’t earn that much myself, but I’m honest and open about it.
Every year, I show the women I’m seeing my company’s financial statements and my personal compensation. They don’t treat me like some poor man from a dating club or anything—in fact, I’d say we get along pretty well.
My arrangement is pay-per-meeting, but I’ve given them a fixed amount every month since we started seeing each other, so I feel they appreciate the stability.
I get the impression that, rather than focusing on whether my annual income is high or low, the women I’m seeing value a stable monthly allowance and how easy I am to spend time with.
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That’s not what you should be worrying about.
You’d be better off thinking about what kind of date would make her happy and how much allowance to offer.
Rather than relying on a man’s self-reported information, which may be a lie, I think women judge him more by how he performs on an actual date.
It’s me.
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First, how many women can genuinely tell the difference between someone earning over ¥20 million and someone earning over ¥30 million?
Since 95% of women wouldn’t turn someone down over a ¥50,000 pay-per-meeting allowance, personally, I feel there isn’t much difference between ¥20 million and ¥30 million.
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There’s an option to keep it private.
Not just on this club, but whenever I’ve had to fill one of these out about a woman, I’ve always kept it private.
I’m practically a living fossil now, so maybe I’ll make it public once people start asking if I’m from the other side…
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