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Nov 24, 2022 19:54
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The woman I’m seeing has left the club, but I’ve heard that she used to receive a lot of offers and still gets contacted by men and clubs even after leaving. It made me wonder whether she’s the kind of girl who can meet with a generous papa.
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
As It’s Me says, women who receive 20,000 yen on a pay-per-meeting basis often get different allowance amounts depending on the man they’re seeing.
If a woman is especially attractive, some men will offer to negotiate a higher amount on their own.
The more desirable she is, the more she can choose her partners—she may turn down 20,000 yen from one man, yet accept 5,000 yen from another.
So, when it comes to women who receive more than 20,000 yen per meeting, the only real characteristic you can point to is that they’re popular and receive a lot of offers.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If she’s getting a lot of offers, you should assume she’s naturally seeing multiple papas and that some of them are likely generous (well-paying).
I’m not sure where the number 20 comes from, though.
Still, if she’s continuing to see you, it means you’ve managed to make it into her rotation. You may be just barely holding your spot, so don’t let your guard down and keep at it.
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I’m not sure whether someone who pays 20,000 yen or more per meeting qualifies as a generous (well-paying) papa, but I do my best to value my papa in my own way.
When he does something for me, I don’t take it for granted—I thank him and try to give something back in return.
I make an effort to ensure that we can have a good relationship mutually. Also, I think there’s something to be said for looking innocent and refined on the outside while being sexy on the inside.
Other
As Marika-san has already mentioned, I think being a little sexy is necessary, at least.
Many men in dating clubs want to reaffirm their masculinity and gain confidence as men. So when a girl becomes more turned on because of their technique, they’re often pleased and feel like treating her especially well.
That said, they like her to be sexy only with them, so I think they generally prefer someone who is modest, serious, and straightforward in everyday life.
My papa often tells me, “You’re only after my body, aren’t you?”
*This is just based on my own experience. I don’t know about other cases, so please keep that in mind.
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出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m not really sure what you’re trying to say.
If the person asking the question gives the woman he’s seeing 200,000 yen or more per meeting, then she becomes a 200,000-yen-per-meeting woman, right?
I can understand what you mean, but I simply think that’s how it works.
Other
Ah, just as It’s Me says.
It varies depending on the person.
There are men who offer 20, too.
Though some don’t offer anything.
Do you want to see what I look like?
Putting my face aside, I apparently have enough sex appeal to make a man get an erection just by playing a round of golf one-on-one with him the other day.
Marika
P.S. 1
Dear It’s Me,
I’m aware of that, of course. (lol)
P.S. 2
People often mention the “refined, innocent type,” but I’ve never once been called either “petite” or “refined” in my life.
Fujiko Mine is obviously sexy to everyone, but if that aloof Fujiko-chan smiled only at you, you’d fall for her, right?
I can’t aspire to be the refined, innocent type, so I’m aiming to be Fujiko-chan and going my own way.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
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What good is that information supposed to do?
Female members have all kinds of views on allowances.
Do you really think women receiving 20 will date any papa (a male supporter) for 20?
In reality, someone might date one papa for 5 and another for 50. Everyone has different circumstances.
So just because a woman accepts an allowance of 5 doesn’t mean she’ll accept 5 from anyone. The allowance is whatever amount matches both people’s values.
It’s me.
>Ah, Marika—
Since 3P is called a threesome in English, a twosome means two people♡
Did you post that knowing this? lol
That was just unbelievably powerful.
As expected of you♪( ´▽`)
🏅 日没を遅らせる唯一の方法は日没に向かって走り続けることだ
名古屋支店登録で、男性会員としての登録名もマックさんです。コラム多数書いてますのでよろしければご参照ください。20代の細身女性が好みで逆オファーには前向きです。経験無いまたは少ない方大歓迎。
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
There are girls who casually receive 20,000 yen or more for dinner only, on a pay-per-meeting basis.
I think the key is how much they appeal to wealthy men who are tired of spending time at hostess clubs. Apparently, that’s the kind of amount they’ll pay because at a hostess club, it’s normal to spend a fortune without being able to have an adult relationship.
They don’t look like hostesses. Actually, they’re the exact opposite. And that’s precisely what appeals to men who’ve grown tired of hostess-club entertainment. You get what I mean?
P.S.
In a nutshell, they’re “ordinary beauties who’ve come full circle.”
Also, this is just my personal theory—or at least what I’ve observed—but generous (well-paying) papas don’t seem to pursue adult relationships very often. Maybe they have other women who take care of that side of things?
P.S. 2
> Looks innocent, but is erotic
The girl I know is a little different. She isn’t erotic at all.
She’s like a crystal-clear stretch of shallow water that goes on forever. It sounds strange, but even when she’s having sex, it doesn’t feel erotic. She remains refined and innocent even during sex.
There’s definitely depth there, but it’s infinitely far away.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t think there are any particular traits.
It simply comes down to whether you’ve met a woman who has a papa (a male supporter) willing to give her 20,000 yen per meeting.
Whether or not she has other papas offering more than 20,000 yen per meeting, doesn’t the fact remain that she’s willing to see you? Your cheapness really stands out.
Adding this after reading It’s Me’s answer:
> Do you really think a woman who receives 20,000 yen will see any papa for 20,000?
> In reality, she may see one papa for 5, and another for 50. Everyone has different circumstances.
Exactly.