Tips Nov 23, 2022 16:17

When many women genuinely fall for a man, they may financially support him.

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Their adult relationship (intimate) with such a man is genuine, and they may feel intensely even if he isn’t particularly skilled sexually. On the other hand, with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I think “the larger the allowance ≒ the more transactional the relationship.” How different is it from having an adult relationship (intimate) with a man who genuinely cares about you?
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
My girl in a monthly arrangement is sexier than her boyfriend, has a bigger package, and says she feels good when I satisfy her needs. It doesn’t seem to be such a simple equation.
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Please don’t go off on some nonsensical personal theory. What, are you seriously trying to say that because he genuinely fell for you, he not only didn’t ask you for money, but actually gave you some? The amount of money involved and someone’s feelings have very little correlation. Akari
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だて◎ゆめ
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> How much of a difference is there between an adult relationship with a man who’s genuinely serious about you? I don’t think there’s much difference at all. I’ve been seeing my partner longer than any of her previous boyfriends, both in terms of relationship length and the number of intimate encounters. I also feel like she really cares about me, so I don’t think there’s any difference. You only feel that way for the first two or three years of the relationship, though(笑).
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When two people genuinely love each other, any kind of sex can be emotionally fulfilling—but that’s separate from physical compatibility. If the physical chemistry is good, it can sometimes be hard to say which is better, but they’re not really things you can directly compare…
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バジル
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
Regardless of the amount of money involved, wouldn’t being with a handsome, skilled papa (a male supporter) offer a different kind of pleasure than being with a man you genuinely love but who’s inexperienced?
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Age: 40s 👨 Male Universe member
I have no idea what you’re talking about. Are you describing something from an erotic manga? Even when you really love someone, there are plenty of times when you just don’t feel it because of your physical condition or mood. And even if you don’t feel that much, if you love the person, being intimate as an extension of communication can still be important in its own way.
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
If you’ve ever had sex with a woman you genuinely liked, you probably understand the difference between that and an adult relationship (intimate) with someone in a transactional relationship. But even in a papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) relationship, don’t you feel that a woman’s genuine feelings can grow as you become intimate repeatedly? Discovering what feels good and developing new erogenous zones are part of the fun that comes with seeing each other many times. Without an excessive “I really like you” vibe, you might be able to enjoy sex purely for what it is. I often tell the women I see that I want us to have sex like it’s a sport. By the way, like Kazu, I don’t think “the size of the allowance ≒ the degree to which it’s transactional.”
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カズ
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I don’t think the size of the allowance necessarily reflects how transactional the relationship is.
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