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Nov 20, 2022 17:51
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Other
Anyone can do it as long as they have sincerity, openness, a lovable personality, and sex appeal—more important than their looks or figure.
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Other
It’s a little different from saying, “I’ll give you your allowance even if we don’t meet,” but I knew I wouldn’t be able to see my papa (a male supporter) for over a month, so he gave me several months’ worth of allowance in advance before we had to be apart.
He told me, “I’ll still be thinking of you even while we can’t meet, so don’t worry and take care of yourself.”
I think he may have done it out of consideration, so I wouldn’t worry that he might end things with me once we couldn’t meet. From his perspective, there was always the risk that I might take the large sum of money and disappear, so I was really happy that he trusted me. I don’t think it’s easy to find someone with whom you can build that level of trust.
I want to keep making an effort to become a woman my papa feels was worth being with. So, although I’m not particularly beautiful or blessed with an amazing figure, I’m deeply loved by my papa and living happily.
Other
I’m a female member, Potassium.
To meet an ideal papa, you probably have to become an ideal papa-katsu girl yourself—at the very least, someone good enough to enter the same “heaven.”
If an ideal papa is someone who says, “I’ll give you an allowance even if we don’t meet,” then an ideal papa-katsu girl would be someone who says, “Even if we meet, I don’t need an allowance,” right?
I feel like the two have to be well matched for them to meet.
So maybe people who only think about receiving will never meet an ideal supporter.
Just a blunt personal theory.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s simple.
If you genuinely want to see him even without an allowance, you’ll receive one.
Any relationship starts with you taking the first step.
Other
When we’re together, I don’t receive an allowance. I only get one when we can’t meet because I feel lonely. More precisely, I’m reimbursed later for the money I spent to keep myself occupied while my papa was away.
I may be describing something like a monthly arrangement where he gives me an allowance even when we don’t meet, but that’s something that develops from the relationship you have with your papa. If you want that from the very beginning, it can come across as greedy, so I don’t think that works.
Looks are what get you an offer in the first place, but they’re on a different wavelength from building a relationship.
Marika
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Wanting to receive an allowance without meeting is no different from begging.
I also struggled financially in my early twenties, but I never resorted to anything like begging.
Women who sometimes receive an allowance without meeting, unlike you, aren’t deliberately trying to make that happen.
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
At that point, I think compatibility and the woman’s personality matter more than her looks or figure.
In other words, looks and figure are important for receiving an offer. They may also matter at the beginning of the relationship, but when it comes to deciding whether to continue seeing each other, compatibility and the woman’s personality become more important.
As mutual trust develops, the man may start to feel that he wants to help her if she’s struggling.
When things reach that stage, he might even say, “I’ll still give you your allowance even while we’re not meeting for a while—you must be having a hard time.”
There are also men who, after having an intimate relationship and providing an allowance for years, eventually say that dinner only is fine. (They may still be intimate occasionally.)
Whether things develop that way seems to depend on factors unrelated to the woman’s looks or figure.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t think appearance or body shape has anything to do with it, since relationships aren’t determined by those things.
By the way, I’ve given an allowance even without meeting in person. I make offers regardless of someone’s appearance or body shape.
Other
If someone like that really exists, I’d like to meet him too…
But do you really think people like that are out there?
If he were a celebrity, you might think, “Well, even if we can’t meet…”
I don’t think the world is quite that easy.