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Would you cut him off at this point and stop replying? He isn’t really a papa, but he occasionally gives me 10,000 yen as pocket money. He’s about 30 years older, holds a high social position, and is married.
Does leaving someone on read give a different impression from leaving their message unread?
I’m considering rejoining because I’m really struggling financially, but do I need to lose weight before signing up again, compared with when I registered previously? I’ve gained 3 kilos.
Which do you think would be better? (T_T) I’m exhausted from living.
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Personally, I find being left on unread more frustrating and unpleasant.
Also, since I don’t know your original weight, I can’t really say whether you should lose weight before registering again.
For example, if your BMI is around 20–21, I don’t think gaining or losing 3 kg would make much difference.
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Which option is better?
There are apps and dating sites, so you could look there as well. Rejoining the dating club is also an option, but unless you search among more men, you may not find someone who suits your preferences. That said, dating clubs are generally safer.
What concerns me more is why you don’t want to get a regular job. But if you’re planning to do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I think it’s fine to look for a papa (a male supporter) in various places.
As for whether you should cut him off, only you can decide whether you want to. Even if you trust what someone else did, they haven’t met him, so they can’t take responsibility. And judging someone based on only part of the story can lead to the wrong conclusion.
If you don’t want to cut him off, you don’t have to. If you do, then cut ties.
Think carefully about what you really want so you won’t regret your decision.
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Exactly. That’s what I mean.
You ignore the bitter advice and go chasing after sweet temptations. You’re practically walking right into being deceived.
I can’t stand those papas who treat such a cute girl so badly. If it were me, I’d treat you with far more care and affection.
Three kilos? That’s absolutely nothing. You’re already cute, so it doesn’t bother me at all. I’m sure you’d be accepted by the club, but… I don’t want you to go apply.
Because I like you.
If you agreed to be with me, I promise I’d naturally give you more than twice the allowance those other papas offer.
Because I like you, I want to cherish you.
I want to get to know you better. Why don’t we talk somewhere quiet?
Even I could say something like that.
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I’m a female member, Potassium.
Since the arrangement doesn’t seem to offer me any benefits and doesn’t sound enjoyable, I’d end it.
Rather than worrying about it, I think you should go ahead and book your interview. It depends on your starting level, but if it’s just 3 kilos, you should be fine. Worrying won’t change the outcome—if you’re not going to pass, you won’t, and if you’re going to pass, you will. There’s no point agonizing over something you can’t decide yourself.
Life is tough, after all. So let’s start by taking one step forward and booking that interview!
I’m rooting for you.
That’s just my opinion.
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Think it through yourself to that extent.
What other people would do is irrelevant.
You’re being far too dependent.
I don’t think you need to be any thinner than you were when you registered before.
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