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Nov 17, 2022 11:49
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’m not really into girls who are too skinny.
If she were so thin that I was genuinely worried about her, I might actually feel like I should make sure she eats plenty, though lol.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Many people at Universe prefer slim women, so plus-size women are often rejected at the interview stage.
That said, not everyone is like that. Some men do like plus-size women. Quite a while ago, there was even a man who repeatedly complained, asking why they wouldn’t introduce him to any plus-size women.
He was the kind of person who would happily say things like, “I’m happiest when I’m with someone who has a little softness to her,” or, “I mean, there’s already a whole [something] on her.” People really do have all kinds of preferences.
Some men are particular about bust size, others about occupation, educational background, whether she’s a student, whether she’s married, how nice her legs or hands are... There are all sorts.
I’ve gotten a little off track, but I’ve rarely heard of men specifically preferring extremely skinny women. I imagine there are some, but probably not many.
Men probably don’t provide support because they’re worried about a woman; they want to support her because they’re attracted to her.
So rather than focusing on whether someone will worry about you, I think it’s better to focus on whether you can become the kind of woman your partner prefers. Being slim may be one factor, but there are many others, so it might be worth looking into them.
Other
This isn’t refugee assistance, so I don’t think anyone is going to support you in eating just because you’re thin.
Marika
Other
Think about it carefully.
Don’t you find extremely skinny people kind of gross, like they might pass some illness on to you?
You’ve been reading too many manga. A woman needs to have some curves〜 Men probably don’t want to hug a skeleton either.
You need a bit of flesh there when you grab someone firmly〜
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
The ones who are generous (well-paying) tend to stick around longer.
Preferences may be pretty evenly split.
Other
Do you think they’ll worry about you and give you an allowance if you get extremely skinny?
I don’t think anyone would support you for that reason, and that’s not what a relationship is about anyway.
By the way, I’m not extremely skinny either. I wouldn’t want to become that thin. Losing weight in a healthy, attractive way is fine, though!
いっつ・みぃ
Male
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Other
When searching for female members on the men’s member page, there aren’t options like “slim” or “curvy.”
So I assumed that not many male members place much importance on whether a woman is slender or fuller when making an offer.
—It’s me
> That’s not true at all. I consider it important. If anything, I don’t really care about her face, lol.
Oh, I see! I figured that if Universe, which seems to be extremely marketing-savvy, hasn’t implemented such a feature, there probably isn’t much demand for it. I guess I need to do some proper research.(^^)
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
I prefer someone slim rather than overweight.
But if they’re unhealthily thin, that’s a bit much. It makes them seem mentally unwell, which is scary.
Too much of anything is a bad thing.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I see it as a relationship with an allowance, not enjo kōsai, so I don’t consider myself to be providing financial assistance in the first place.
I mainly choose my partners based on their work and personality, so appearance is a fairly low priority when deciding who to date.
As for my personal preference regarding body type, I like women with a little more flesh on them. I’m not particularly attracted to very thin women. If someone is so thin that I’d be worried about their health, I tend not to like them either, partly because it can seem as though they may be dealing with issues internally.