Sexual dependency

Everyone’s so amusing. If a naked woman got on the elevator, she’d be making everyone happy. I’d like to see that. Life is nothing more than a way to pass the time. You might as well have fun. Cats and hamsters do the same.

You feel guilty because you call it “sex addiction.” Just cheerfully say, “I love sex!” Most people reading this will probably agree. I’m not really sure what sexual trauma is, but I know someone who completely overcame trauma on the level of getting into an elevator stark naked and having another passenger walk in, so you’ll be fine (sorry to anyone who’s actually been through trauma!). If being called cute means you get to have sex, what’s wrong with that? You got what you wanted, right? If it doesn’t last, just find new prey. That’s how most carnivorous animals live, so there’s no problem. Rather than cowering in fear of something you don’t even understand, wouldn’t you be several times more of a winner if you were trembling from the pleasure of sex? I can’t sleep without alcohol, but my liver function and everything else are within normal ranges, so I can confidently say I’m healthy. If it’s healthy and sustainable, it isn’t an addiction—it’s just a lifestyle habit. That means there’s no need to change anything. Let’s be more selfish. Being alive is a basic human right. Living your life happily is a fundamental right that everyone must acknowledge. Whether you choose to be honest about it with those around you is another matter, but when it comes to how you live, it’s perfectly fine to be completely selfish. Run as far as you can from anything you dislike, and pour all your energy into getting what you love. I can confidently say that over 80% of the world’s population lives by this simple logic. Everyone is different, so there will always be moments when you think, “Why are they like that??” But conversely, if you can properly express what bothers you, the person you’re talking to will have no choice but to accept it. I think the real problem isn’t being that way—it’s being unable to tell the people around you, “Sorry, but this is how I feel.” Just cut off anyone who doesn’t agree. There will definitely be people who do. It’s a matter of probability, so if you keep trying, you’re bound to find them. You’re just too nice. You’re far too sensitive. It’s okay to live a little thicker-skinned. That’s the global standard. “Good luck” isn’t quite the right thing to say—just keep walking forward and you’ll be fine. You can be confident(^^)v Taro

The only one who’ll stay with me until the very end is me, and the only one who’ll never abandon you until the very end is probably you. The detours and humiliations will last a lifetime, and loneliness will always find a way to wedge itself between us and happiness. Even after accomplishing something, the pain won’t disappear, and shadows will always fall across paradise. I’m not saying this out of despair or anything. For someone like me, who thinks about these things, being depended on is actually just about right. In other words, maybe all you have to do is change the person you depend on, and you can be happy without changing at all. That’s how I feel. Personally, I think the whole idea that “dependence is bad” is strange. We depend on others simply because dependence is necessary to get through life. I’m probably dependent on being depended on, but I don’t think that’s all that weird. Am I messed up? lol

What matters isn’t what others are doing or thinking, but what you want to do and what’s important to you. Everyone has different values, and there’s no right or wrong answer. If someone doesn’t share your values, I think it’s better for them to let you go. Even if you have an unusual fetish, there will be someone—though perhaps not many—who finds it endearing and treats it with care. I hope you meet someone like that! It’s me.

I don’t know if it’s considered normal, but plenty of people have slept with someone they were meeting for the first time. I sometimes see women say, “He’ll lose interest if we have sex,” but do they really think he won’t lose interest if they don’t? I think boring women will be dropped whether they have sex or not. Since sex might improve how you’re perceived, having it could actually reduce the risk of him losing interest.