Tips Nov 15, 2022 22:36

I came across a man’s profile and found someone I’d really like to meet.

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Would it be okay for me to send him a “That’s lovely” with a message expressing my interest in meeting him?
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いっつ・みぃ
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Other
If you have time to write that post, you could put in the same effort and send a guy a “like” with a message saying he looks great. You won’t get anywhere by asking questions here, no matter how many you post. Rather than overthinking it, I think you’re better off taking action ♪( ´▽`) It’s me.
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Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
A good papa (a male supporter) probably gets plenty of “You’re wonderful” likes, so it’s best not to expect too much. That said, if you don’t take action, you won’t get more offers. If you want offers, I think you should send lots of messages along with your likes. Just guessing, but maybe you’d get about one offer for every 100 messages? Who knows. And this applies not only to that particular papa—if you want offers, I think you should make active use of the site.
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On the contrary, why not message him, “You seem wonderful”? If you don’t take the initiative yourself, it’s hard to meet the kind of man you’re looking for.
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I think it’s fine to reach out. Just avoid copy-paste messages that could apply to anyone.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
It’s a feature designed for that purpose.
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