Are there any women in their 40s who keep getting offers without interruption?
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It’s been a month since I joined.
Thankfully, I received five offers soon after registering, but then they suddenly stopped.
What are the women in their 40s who continue to receive offers consistently like?
I can’t change my appearance, so I suppose there’s nothing I can do about that, but I’d really appreciate any advice on things I could highlight to appeal to male members.
👤Asked byGuest👩GenderFemale🎂40s👑Universe female member
I’ve already left the club, but my approach was to become inactive, go secret, or hide my profile after receiving offers for about two weeks to a month, then have new photos taken roughly a year and a half later, receive some offers, and take my profile down again.
I think it’s quite difficult to receive offers consistently unless you have a particularly eye-catching appeal.
That said, continuing is ultimately more important than simply receiving offers. The chances of a man who is perfect in every way making you an offer aren’t very high, so I think it’s worth carefully considering whether you’re willing to continue even if there are things you have to compromise on, or whether you’ll only date someone who’s perfect.
You could also try other dating clubs, since you’d be considered a new member there. However, I’ve heard that some men register with multiple clubs, and you might be found out if they realize you were also on Universe.
Hope this helps.
Marika
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More and more women are joining all the time.
New members’ profiles are displayed near the top at first, so as time passes, they gradually get pushed farther down. That means you can’t expect as much after the first month.
I think getting five offers in your 40s is a very good number.
When it’s time for your next photo shoot, renewal, or follow-up contact, your profile will move back up, so let’s prepare well and make the most of that opportunity.
Having lots of stars may also give you an advantage now that people can search by star rating.
If you treat each papa who sends you an offer politely and your ratings improve, you may start receiving more offers.
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I’ll have been doing this for two years in another three or four months.
You do get offers at first, but after that, they tend to drop to once or twice a month and gradually become less frequent.
I’ve recently started receiving offers again, and I have my first date next week.
I haven’t done anything in particular, but maybe it has something to do with how I write my profile. I have four or five selfies posted.
Some people are interested in my job, while others are drawn to my hobbies. Maybe you could try showing more of your personality in your profile.
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I’d also like to answer this as Karasaki from the Universe Club Tokyo Unit.
First of all, receiving five offers in one month is quite a lot. It’s not unusual for women in their 20s or 30s to join and never receive a single offer, so I believe many men find you attractive.
Because women are displayed to men in the order they joined the club, offers do tend to decrease as more time passes after joining. However, if you’ve already received five offers, there should still be plenty of men who would like to go on a date with you.
You can show men that you’re motivated to stay active by making use of selfie posts and the calendar feature, so please take advantage of them.
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If you receive as many as five offers right after registering, you may assume that lots more will continue to come in. However, in most cases, the number of offers is highest immediately after registration and gradually declines afterward.
Especially after those first five offers, it’s quite possible that most of the men currently using the service have already seen your profile, so you may not receive any more offers for a while. If offers start coming in sporadically a few months later, I’d say that means you’re still considered an attractive woman.
So for now, I think it would be best to value your relationships with the men you met through those five offers. You don’t need to force yourself, but if they’re decent, ordinary men, it may be worth continuing to see them for the time being.
Eventually, when someone better comes along, you can simply say goodbye to the men who seemed ordinary.
By the way, receiving five offers right after registering is actually quite a good result.
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You should work on your greed and impatience—you don’t think five offers a month is enough—as well as your lack of independence, since you worry about what others are doing instead of figuring out ways to improve your own situation. Asking a shallow question like this is another thing you should fix.
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