Tips Nov 13, 2022 16:06

I’m the person who asked yesterday about being possessive toward a woman. Thank you for your answer. As a follow-up question, we currently meet once a month for an adult relationship (intimate), and I give her 20. After thinking it over, I’m considering not being possessive and changing it to 10 for an adult relationship (intimate) once a month.

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For the women here, which would you prefer: 20 with some restrictions, or 10 without restrictions? By “restrictions,” I only mean asking her to reply to my LINE messages as soon as possible. I don’t call her.
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A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
It depends on what exactly you mean by wanting him to reply more quickly on LINE. Expecting him to respond right away even while he’s at work probably isn’t reasonable and won’t work out well. It’s difficult to make someone adapt to your pace. I think that when two people are a good match, their communication naturally falls into a rhythm that works for both of them.
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バジル
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
20, no question. Whether you’re controlling or not, if you cut it in half, almost all the girls will leave.
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Even ¥20,000 a month is too much for me. I also don’t like that he’s over 70 and thinks that giving me money means he has the right to control me.
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A non-controlling 20 is the only option, isn’t it?! I don’t think you’re compatible with that woman. Some people do reply quickly, though. Being possessive is nice when it comes from someone you like, but from anyone else, it’s just bothersome—or simply a misunderstanding.
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Female member Potassium here. Instead of trying to solve every demand you impose on someone with money, why not solve things through your own actions and way of thinking...? Trying to buy someone else’s freedom with money is basically slavery. If you really want to settle everything with money, then why not make a price list like: one reply, within how many minutes, for how much? I got carried away with my personal opinion. My apologies, my apologies. P.S. Here’s the price list the papa below just made for me: Basic fee per reply: ¥100 Early reply bonus: Within 1 hour: +¥100 Within 2 hours: +¥50 Late reply deductions: 1 day or more: −¥50 2 days or more: −¥100 Selfie bonus: +¥500 Selfie video bonus: +¥1,000 Sexy selfie bonus: +¥5,000 Sexy selfie video bonus: +¥10,000 I laughed because the deductions were just too brutal. I politely declined.
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入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s 👨 Male Universe member
Regardless of whether he’s possessive or not, wouldn’t 30 be okay, senpai?
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
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Stop asking about every little thing and just do whatever you want. Just understand that lowering her allowance is essentially telling her that she isn’t attractive enough to justify giving her 20. If you don’t understand that, it’s better not to say anything. But if you want to lower it to 10 because you don’t find her attractive enough, that’s your choice.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Everyone’s feelings are different, so why ask other people about it? As Mac pointed out, it seems like they may be losing it a bit. To begin with, I think it’s unreasonable to expect a quick reply from someone you only meet once a month. You should probably just be grateful they reply at all.
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