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Nov 12, 2022 19:33
12 answers
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Their messages are so persistent and annoying that I’ve been slowing down my replies.
I found another good papa (a male supporter), and I’ve been messaging him a lot.
I got a boyfriend, so I’m not as interested in the person asking the question anymore.
I got really into my favorite at a maid café, so I’m not as interested in the person asking the question anymore.
What should I do, what should I do? Ahh, ahh!
It’s papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), after all.
People will dislike you if you come on too strong.
You should date multiple people too and take your mind off it.
Other
There’s really nothing to confirm—the fact that he’s already difficult to reach says it all.
As a man using a dating club, you’re better off letting go of the urge to seek confirmation in the first place.
Marika
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
Do you really think there’s anything to be gained from knowing?
Last night, I met up with a woman I hadn’t heard from in about six months, and we got on top of each other. Then I asked her:
“Have you been getting on top of each other during these past six months?”
Her reply was, “Did you really think I hadn’t?”
Maybe if you ask her in bed, she might give you an honest answer.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Having trouble reaching her is the clearest sign that she may have found another guy. It’s best to move on and make offers to someone else.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
It’s fortune-telling.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
Whether she found another guy or simply found other things she’d rather be doing and has less time for this activity, the bottom line is that you’ve become less of a priority to her.
Rather than wasting time wondering why, I’d assume things will fizzle out eventually and start looking for someone else.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Even if she starts seeing another man, if you’re still the one she prioritizes, she’ll probably keep contacting you as usual. On the other hand, if contacting her frequently won’t make any difference, I don’t think there’s any need to keep reaching out so often.
More important than how often you contact each other is how things are when you’re together—whether you can still meet as before.
Whether she has another man or not is beside the point.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
At your age, you really need to project a calm sense of confidence and composure...
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
There’s no way to check.
Once you start suspecting the other person, I think the relationship will stop working too.
Other
Unfortunately, I think that happens because you’re not attractive enough.
My papa (a male supporter) is very popular, so he’s constantly getting messages from girls he hasn’t even met. He says the secret to being popular is “not getting attached.”
Other
Please stop asking questions like that—it’s scary.
Besides, what difference does it make whether she’s been with someone or not? Many of these women are at an age where they can easily get boyfriends, and if you’re not enough for her, she can always find another papa (male supporter).
Why not try increasing her allowance?
👨 Male
Universe member
You’ll naturally figure it out with time.
Don’t rush!
Don’t rush!