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Nov 10, 2022 11:25
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve made quite a few offers to female college students as well.
Things usually continue for a few dates, but it’s been difficult to develop them into long-term relationships. Lately, I’ve been spending more time with women in their mid-to-late twenties.
There’s a woman I’ve recently grown close to, and I hope things will last. I wonder how it’ll turn out…
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve made offers before too, haha.
So far, I’ve met three women through a dating club (and nowhere else).
The first was in her mid-30s. After exchanging emails for two or three days, she said some completely outrageous things—and then promptly left the club.
The second was in her early 30s. I suspected she was misrepresenting her relationship preferences. I’ve already shared the story in this papa-katsu anonymous Q&A box, haha.
With the third, I gave up trying to find someone on my own and asked the dating club to introduce me to someone. She turned out to be a university student who had only just turned 20. That really surprised me!
Looking at her photos, I thought, “Hmm… she’s young!” But since the club had introduced us and she seemed fine with it, I decided to make an offer.
When we met in person, my impression was that she looked like a doll but was also an overly confident country girl. I wondered if I’d made a mistake. But as we continued seeing each other for three months, then a year, the girl who initially said, “I don’t want to hear that from some old man!” eventually started calling me “handsome” after about three years, haha.
Thanks to that, our relationship just kept going, and we’ll soon have been together for five years—with no sign of it ending!
Sorry for the long preamble, but yes, some people do make offers.
I hope you both enjoy a mutually beneficial relationship.
Other
I’m a female member, Potassium. Hey there.
If your photos and videos give off a good vibe and you look appealing, I think you’ll get offers!
Since you’re already a female member, I’m guessing you may have only just joined. In that case, I think it’s best to wait patiently for offers. I know it can be unsettling when none come in… I totally get it.
Apparently, new members appear on the first page, so this is your chance. Filling out your profile and the “mistress assessment” thoroughly might also improve your chances.
From what some of the other respondents have said, being too young can sometimes work against you. So while you’re displayed on the first page, I’d adjust my comments to appeal to the male members who fit the type of target you’re looking for.
The period probably isn’t very long, so I’d split it in half and test different approaches—though I don’t know if it’ll actually make a difference. It did for me, though…
While waiting patiently, it’s worth trying whatever you can. Good luck!
That’s just my personal opinion.
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
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会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
> I’d make an offer if she’s graduating and starting work next year, as long as it’s still within this year. Once the new year begins, though, I probably wouldn’t if her job is far away.
Hmm… actually, I might not even make the offer before the end of the year if she’s moving away. It really depends on whether she’ll be relocating.
My main age range is around 22–23.4 through clubs, and 19–22 outside clubs. (It’s not that I don’t have the courage to approach an ordinary woman over 22.3 without an allowance—I just wouldn’t be taken seriously.)
Other
I think many people prefer college students.
That said, even if you’re a college student, you won’t receive offers unless you’re reasonably attractive.
For starters, please book an interview with Universe.
We look forward to hearing from you.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Whether you receive offers is mainly decided by your appearance.
(You can’t really know for sure until you meet in person, though.)
And age-wise, you don’t seem to be at a particular disadvantage. So if you’ve been reasonably popular up to now, I think you’ll receive offers.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t make offers myself, but apparently some supporters do prefer female college students.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
Many men prefer younger women, so if you’re reasonably attractive, I think you’ll receive offers.
Personally, I mainly date women in their mid-20s to early 30s. College students before job hunting often seem more immature than young, so they’re not really my type. But once they start job hunting, they experience hardships to varying degrees and mature emotionally, which makes it easier for me to see them as adult women.