I’m considering working at either a men’s esthetic salon or a maid café so I can move out of my parents’ house.
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I’m embarrassed to admit that I don’t have the confidence to juggle multiple part-time jobs.
That said, I’m not particularly attractive either.
Do you know of any jobs you’d recommend?
I have no experience with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
I’ve already left Universe Club.
Even if I rejoined, I don’t think I’d meet anyone in my current situation.
If you’re in your 20s, you can get hired as a full-time employee even without experience.
It’s also perfectly normal to earn around ¥200,000 a month.
While you’re still in your 20s, find an office job and take your time learning the ropes.
If you wait until your 30s or 40s to look for work without any experience, you may not find anything. And even if you do get hired, you’ll end up being trained by people younger than you.
You’re only thinking about your situation right now, aren’t you? Don’t just worry about the present—think about the future too.
Tomorrow, check Indeed, en Japan, and other job sites and start looking for work.
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I don’t know much about maid cafés, but I can answer about men’s esthe salons.
At a men’s esthe salon, I think you could get hired pretty much anywhere as long as you’re slim. If you’ve been registered with Universe, you should be fine.
With private-room salons, you won’t have to interact with the women you work with, so you can work at your own pace. On the other hand, if you want to make friends at work, there are salons where you work alongside others—but in that case, you could also work at a hostess club or café, so a men’s esthe salon may not be necessary.
Also, men’s esthe work is physically demanding at first—you may even end up sore all over. The upside is that you don’t have to talk to unpleasant customers at all; you can simply focus on giving massages in silence.
People who want to avoid alcohol, cigarettes, loud environments, or having to talk with customers they dislike often end up working at men’s esthe salons.
If you know what you’re comfortable or uncomfortable with, it might be worth thinking about which option suits you better.
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If you’re considering working at a men’s relaxation salon or a maid café, I think you should try working there first.
You may find that some jobs suit you better than others, and even in the same line of work, relationships with your coworkers can make a difference.
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I’ve never worked at a men’s esthetics salon or a maid café, so I don’t actually know what you do there. As for that, it’s really up to you…
Instead of saying you’re not confident you can juggle multiple part-time jobs, I think you should just give it a try—you won’t know until you do.
Why do you think you can’t handle more than one job? If you don’t know what you want to do, why not try a few different things for now? You’re probably still young, so you have plenty of opportunities to gain different experiences.
Rather than saying “I can’t” or “I don’t meet anyone with my current lifestyle,” I think nothing will change unless you take the first step. Try it first, then think about it afterward—you’re not too late!
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There’s no way to know what kind of job suits you when we don’t know anything about you.
Stop overthinking it and just try working. Since it’s only a part-time job, you can quit if you feel it’s not a good fit.
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