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Nov 5, 2022 19:39
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A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Like you, I’m a low-paying papa, but I’m not getting rejected left and right at all.
One of the women I’m seeing is very popular and has a generous (well-paying) papa, but she’s happy to go at my pace, so we’re enjoying seeing each other.
There are probably more popular women among Type B than Type C because they have that “unattainable beauty” vibe—they’re not easy to get.
With Type A, men often don’t even make an offer because they’ve already given up before trying, so even women who have the looks or careers to be popular receive very few offers.
That said, I recently managed to win over a great Type A woman, so I’m thinking of holding off on making any new offers for a while.
Other
As Mr. Maezawa pointed out, I have to wonder what kind of person you are to have researched the fact that B-types tend to have more generous (well-paying) papas（笑）
When it comes to the likelihood of progressing to an adult relationship (intimate), it depends on whether you make that judgment at the first meeting or after the second meeting, so I think B-types may have a lower rate than the other types. (I’m excluding A-types since they already have that understanding from the outset.) If you call getting to that point “攻略,” then I suppose it is difficult—but I also feel that treating an adult relationship as something to攻略 in the first place is a little off.
As Aya-san’s comment about “losing my senses and choosing C-type” suggests, women also have those kinds of views about relationship types, so I imagine many men make similar judgments.
That said, at first I somehow felt that B-types were more likely to focus on one person, so I only made offers to B-types. But after seeing the girl I was dating and the respondent here, I realized I’d simply been mistaken（笑）
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Women who seem popular probably get lots of offers and can choose their papas. Since women are looking to make money, isn’t that only natural?
There’s no woman who would say, “You’re a low-paying papa, but I’ll date you because I feel sorry for you.”
So keep striking out until you understand how things work.
At the club, you’re a generous (well-paying) papa who contributes through the number of offers you make.
I’m a low-paying papa too, but after striking out plenty of times, I’m enjoying papa-katsu with my own strategy as a low-paying papa.
🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
That’s pathetic. As another low-paying papa, I honestly find it pathetic as hell, lol.
Don’t blame some invisible stranger, lol.
Click “Column Articles” above and read all of my columns.
With that kind of mindset, even a chance pitch right down the middle will look like a ball, and you’ll strike out.
Other
I’m a Type B, and somewhat embarrassingly, I have several generous (well-paying) papas. But when I briefly lost my mind and switched to Type C, a man who seemed like he might become a generous papa got angry, saying something along the lines of, “You’re switching to Type C?! Does that mean you’ll sleep with anyone?!”—and the relationship fell apart.
I feel like many generous papas think, “If I find a good girl who’ll be with just me, I don’t mind spending a lot of money on her.” That’s just my impression, though.
I get the sense that men like that assume Type C girls will “sleep with anyone,” while Type B gives them the impression that the girl will focus exclusively on them. So in the end, maybe Type B girls are the ones who manage to land generous papas.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Exactly as Kazu says.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
Why do people who keep striking out with Type B women—especially popular ones—know that she has a generous (well-paying) papa (a male supporter)?
Does it really come up in conversation from the very first day?
If so, the reason they’re striking out is probably that they’re bringing up the wrong topics during the meal. I’m also starting to think they may not be choosing the right restaurants.
If you can’t make a woman think, the moment she walks in, “What a stylish place,” I feel the arrangement is unlikely to go well.
Even with Type B, the first meeting ends after dinner only, so I think it’s worth giving serious thought to how you can make that meal an enjoyable experience.
I don’t think it would be enjoyable if the main topics of conversation were other papas or allowance.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t know anything about the relationship between B and her generous (well-paying) papa (a male supporter), but I think the reason the questioner is destined to fail is simply that he’s the kind of boring man who would post something like this.
👨 Male
Universe member
I feel there are overwhelmingly more Type B women.
Maybe it’s because they won’t pursue an arrangement unless they feel the other person is a good match.
Also, I think they give off the impression of being cautious women. From the male members’ perspective, perhaps that cautiousness is part of what makes them appealing.
When a woman seems like a great match, they don’t mind spending money on her.（笑）