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Nov 2, 2022 13:45
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She was a lovely person, but we weren’t a good match, so we parted ways.
I found myself wondering whether she had met a good papa, so I checked her page, only to find that her private photos and comments had gone in a direction that made me want to cry, “No way!”
I’m itching to tell her, “You won’t get any offers like that—try doing it this way.”
But since merely looking at her page after all this time might already come across as creepy, would it be better to ask a staff member to pass the advice along to her??
10 answers
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
If you’re still seeing her, that’s one thing, but if you’ve broken up, it’s best to leave it alone.
Wouldn’t you hate it if she gave you feedback on why she broke up with you?
Sometimes ignorance is bliss. You’re no longer involved, so just let it go.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t think you should do that.
It’s best to give that kind of advice when you’re actually meeting in person.
Other
I’m a female member, Potassium.
Honestly, I’m not really sure what to say. After reading the other respondents’ opinions, I realized I must be a pretty unusual woman. But I did start wondering whether I’d get more offers if a man helped edit my profile text.
I appreciate the kindness behind wanting to help that woman get more offers, but it would definitely come across as being overly meddlesome... so it’s probably best to leave it alone.
What interested me even more was the fact that he looked at her profile even though they didn’t click. If she turned him down, that’s practically stalker behavior—but if he was the one who turned her down, I found myself wondering what led him to do that.
That said, this is probably just the thinking of a crazy person, so either way, it’s better to let it go.
Just my personal opinion and a lingering thought.
Other
No matter how you go about it, it’s creepy and scary.
Other
Who do you think you are?
You’re nothing but a stalker.
Akari
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Gross.
Other
Should we call offers from people like the questioner “of-fers!”? lol
Pronounce it like you’re shouting it, lol.
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
Could you show me what that advice says? It must be the kind of thing that makes you go, “Whoa!”
Other
If we’ve broken up, please don’t look at me.
It scares me.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
If you wanted to explain yourself, the first thing you should do is meet her, give her an allowance, and support her.
If you’re not interested in that, then why are you even looking?
You should work on yourself first so you don’t get those urges in the first place.
Are you sleepwalking? Seriously, get a grip. There’s stupid, and then there’s you. You’d be better off being permanently banned.