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Oct 29, 2022 17:51
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Whoa…
The other person is a human being with feelings, too.
If you don’t realize how self-centered your thinking is, you’ll just keep repeating the same thing forever.
Either go to a sex venue, or if you can’t change that mindset, pay a much more generous allowance. Aren’t those your two options?
Thank you. Thanks to self-centered papas like you, my gentlemanly behavior really stands out. The reason I can do well in papa-katsu even though I’m not good-looking is because people can compare me with papas like you. I’m grateful.
Thank you so much!
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
“Please don’t finish outside,” or “If possible, I’d like to keep it cheap”…
As the person asking this question, you really need to stop taking women for granted. Who’s actually being disrespectful here?
That said, Japan has soaplands, so I think you can get what you’re looking for there.
> How can I get as far as D in the ABCs of love?
D means pregnancy, right?
If there’s nothing wrong with your sperm, I think you should get married.
I honestly don’t understand why you want to get someone pregnant when you aren’t even married to her.
Other
I’m sure someone will agree to a pay-per-meeting arrangement for around 20,000 yen.
If you want to pay less, go to a soapland.
By the way, is this even helpful?
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Being able to build a mutually satisfying relationship through dinner alone, regardless of age—
That will also deepen the satisfaction of an intimate relationship and help you build a good relationship even outside the club.
You really need to rethink things from the ground up.
And since you’re a papa, once you’re over 50, you need to be someone they want to tease… or rather, you should enjoy dating someone you want to be teased by…
> Date◎Yume
That senior gentleman in his early 70s whom I sometimes mention—someone I know outside the club—is still discovering new cabin attendants and insurance saleswomen around 30. It makes me think that intimacy preserves youth and vitality and gives you the energy to live.
👨 Male
Universe member
Well, I totally understand how you feel（笑）
If things continue as they are, I think I can probably keep going with my current partner, but finding someone new would be pretty difficult（笑）
As for a solution, I can’t think of any particularly good ideas. I’d like someone to tell me too（笑） Sorry...
I guess the only option is going to a sex-service establishment? In my case, though, I’m not even sure I could hold out that long（笑）
In that respect, you’re doing great!
Other
It’s not because he’s 75—it’s because he talks like that. He should realize that’s why nobody wants anything to do with him.
“Sorry, but I’m not paying much just to finish outside”?
No, we’re the ones saying sorry.
“Don’t look down on older men”?
Give me a break. What do you think women are?
Other
For someone like you, I’d recommend a soapland in Yoshiwara.
I hear the hospitality is pretty good, too.
🏅 手コキ評論家
入会して8年。いまだ彷徨中です
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
Senpai!
Despite your back pain, you’re still keeping up your activities. It must be giving you a reason to keep going in life. I’d like to follow your example, too. However, at the moment, you’re being subjected to a concentrated barrage of criticism from the other respondents. It’s a little sad, but I’m afraid I have to agree with them as well. Maybe “I don’t do anything outside” and “I’m cheap” were intended as jokes, but I couldn’t find them funny.
If you want to get physical without relying on the power of Yukichi, you’ll have to highlight some other appeal. A certain very busty young woman I know is seeing several papas (male supporters). Her oldest papa is 77. She says he’s an interesting conversationalist, his allowance isn’t especially high, but he’s the best she’s ever had at that particular thing. What’s your strongest asset, Senpai?
Other
They probably think, “He’s more than twice my age, and I’m guessing his allowance is less than half. Take your nonsense back to bed, you damn old man.”
You should spend whatever time you have left in life reflecting on how you became the kind of old man people can look down on.
The person I met for work the other day was also an utterly hopeless old man. Stop looking down on younger people already.
Other
Wouldn’t it be faster to just find the cheapest adult entertainment place you can?
Seriously, lol.
P.S. I get why you wouldn’t want to give someone like this your real name, lol. Even having a meal with them would be painful, right? lol
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I think it would be best to first let go of ideas like “I don’t want to finish outside” or “If possible, I want to keep it cheap.”
I’ve also heard several dating partners share their impressions and complaints about going on dates with men in their 70s. Many of them said the men’s advances were dreamy, clingy, and frankly creepy.
At a dating club, the only way to express passion that’s likely to be welcomed by a woman you barely know is probably through the thickness of your allowance.
I can’t say whether this applies to you, but try to reflect honestly on whether your approach toward women is too casual—or not casual enough.
Also, you may want to reconsider the age range of the women you’re making offers to.
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
The older a man gets, the more hesitant women tend to be about entering into an adult relationship with him.
I think the age of the woman’s father is one useful benchmark.
The allowance is probably what makes up for that.
If you’re at the stage of asking for something cheap, you really need to stop underestimating women.
Why not go to a budget soapland instead?