It probably depends on the person.
If she’s the type who keeps coming after you even while acting aloof, maybe you don’t need to say it. But generally, if you’re grateful, wouldn’t it be cuter to say so?
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The more you want someone to lavish you with gifts, the less likely it seems to happen.
Overdoing it with “thank you” doesn’t work because the questioner’s desire to be lavished becomes obvious.
The reason acting distant may lead to getting more gifts is that, to the man, you may appear not to want anything from him.
That said, I don’t think you should avoid saying thank you altogether. Maybe thank him appropriately while still keeping a somewhat detached attitude.
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I think it depends on the person.
Some men enjoy supporting someone financially, while others don’t really care for it. I think the ones who enjoy it are in the minority.
My papa (a male supporter) happens to be the former. Thanks to his support, I’m able to live my life with peace of mind.
I’m truly more grateful than I can put into words. So naturally, whenever he does something for me, I express my appreciation. I also show it by giving him gifts myself or doing things for him that money can’t buy.
There may be people who act cold while still receiving support, but I think properly saying thank you for what someone has done for you is just common courtesy.
That said, I’ve made it clear that I don’t like being controlled. So when he makes possessive comments, I tell him that I’m not comfortable with it. I don’t think that’s the same as being cold or indifferent.
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I’m a female member, and I’m not really sure what the truth is.
If it’s causing you this much worry, I think you simply don’t have to say it when you don’t genuinely feel grateful.
I managed to keep it short too, lol.
That’s just my personal opinion.
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With a distant girl, you may want to pursue her at first, but you’ll soon stop caring.
A girl who says “thank you” too often may seem annoying at first, but when she says it sincerely, you tend to grow attached and find it harder to end things.
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Even if things feel a little distant, if you’re meeting up, you’ll probably both say “thank you” countless times throughout the day.
Whether you’re having a meal or at a hotel, you’ll both say it just as often.
That said, it’s probably best not to overdo the thanks for the allowance—or simply for meeting with you.
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