I want to become more beautiful.

In the initial screening, we don’t pass someone based on their looks alone. (Even if I pass them, someone else may reject them.) That said, there are also cases where we reject someone based solely on their appearance—or rather, their photo. For example, if the photo looks carelessly taken (because it suggests a lack of motivation), if the person is excessively overweight (because they may lack self-control), or if they give off a negative aura (because it can spread to others). We make that judgment within two or three seconds. Since applicants have already passed the initial screening by the time they reach the interview, appearance is no longer a factor. It simply comes down to how they communicate and respond. Also, in my experience, if the interview ends much sooner than scheduled, there’s almost no chance of moving forward. If both sides are interested, 30 minutes to an hour flies by. There may be some people who look good without doing anything, but as far as I know, most of the people I’ve encountered put in a great deal of effort. It may sound harsh, but even I do basic skincare, so I don’t think skincare alone is enough. In fact, compared with the skincare routines of people who truly put in the effort, what I do might not even qualify as skincare. You say you only need to “change your fashion,” but as Potassium-san pointed out, that actually requires a considerable amount of research and effort. I think you should first change the impression your entire post gives—that you want to minimize your effort as much as possible. There are things you can do to improve your appearance without spending money, but they require effort. On top of that, some people invest a great deal of money as well. Earning money also takes effort. Whatever you do, effort is necessary. There are differences in what we’re born with, but making at least a minimum effort is essential. It seems to me that many fairly average people aren’t even making that minimum effort. If you’d rather spend every day feeling frustrated while telling yourself that even being able to make an effort is a talent, that’s fine too.

Female member Potassium here. I thought your concerns might have been resolved by the next post, but I wanted to share my thoughts anyway. If not eating snacks and things causes you stress, I think you should eat them. Also, the fact that you’re working hard on your skincare is really great! Please be confident in yourself. Your overall impression can change quite a bit just by changing your fashion, makeup, or hairstyle. If you’re not particularly interested in clothes, I think it might be helpful to look into outfits that suit your body shape and personal color, as well as makeup techniques that match your facial features and how they’re arranged. I’m terrible at doing my eyebrows myself, though... As for work, I mostly agree with the other respondents... I think it comes down to either tailoring yourself to the place you want to work, or finding a job that suits you. Based on what I know from job hunting, companies, and friends, the things that generally make a good impression anywhere include: - Speaking clearly and slowly during interviews (Even if you’re not especially energetic, a calm, intelligent manner works too.) - Preparing talking points in advance (It’s good to have a few different topics ready.) There are lots of tips like these online, as well as advice on how to write an appealing résumé, so definitely look into them. With enough practice, you may be able to find a job that suits you. As women gain confidence, they develop a poised presence regardless of their looks, and that can make them even more beautiful. I’ll do my best too, so let’s work hard together! I’m sure things are difficult in many ways, but please take care of yourself and do your best at your own pace. I’m rooting for you.

> Whenever I try to look for work, I keep getting rejected at the application or interview stage, and it’s made me lose confidence in my appearance. For ordinary jobs, I don’t think your appearance matters that much. If you’re being rejected based on your application, there may be an issue with your résumé or work history. If it’s happening at interviews, there may be a problem with how you respond to the interviewer—but it could also still be related to your résumé or work history. I think there are ways to improve the situation. It may come down to whether you can identify the problem yourself or meet someone who can point it out to you. There should also be plenty of advice online, so it might be worth working on those areas little by little. If you’re applying for jobs where appearance is especially important rather than ordinary jobs, I think it would be better to switch to applying for different kinds of work.

I love sweets too. When I eat too much, I skip dinner. You gain weight because you eat breakfast, lunch, and dinner—and snacks as well. But eating mostly sweets can cause skin problems, so please be careful. Also, do you absolutely have to have a boyfriend? If you’re in your twenties and being rejected during the application screening stage, it’s because your résumé and work history aren’t written well—not because of your looks. Do you have any qualifications? Getting certifications such as the Secretary Skills Test or computer-related qualifications will make it easier to get hired. These days, being able to use PowerPoint or speak English or Chinese can lead to a higher salary. Please consider it.