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Oct 21, 2022 21:42
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Also, if you’ve already decided that you’ll quit papa-katsu should certain circumstances or aspects of your environment change, could you tell me what those are?
Thank you.
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Other
If papa-katsu means looking for a papa or a woman to date, then my papa quit a long time ago. Ever since he met me, he hasn’t been looking for anyone else.
I think we’ll stay together unless something happens, like his wife finding out. As I mentioned the other day, I’d still be with him even if he couldn’t perform.
He’s told me he’ll cherish me for the rest of our lives.
Marika
Other
Kamihikōki, how should I know? If you want to go on a parfait date, just enjoy yourself(笑)
To answer the question as well as tie it back to the first part: I suppose you graduate once you find someone special. I actually left once myself, and that really did feel like graduating.
Unfortunately, I re-enrolled, and these days I’m having a hard time graduating again(笑)
Taro
👨 Male
Universe member
What’s going to happen to me, I wonder?
Even now, I feel like I’m in an allowance-based relationship rather than doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)...
I guess I’ll know it’s time to stop when my current arrangement ends and I either start turning down offers or women stop showing interest in me?
Other
When should I quit…? Maybe when the offers stop coming.
It might be fun to set a new record and prove that I can still get offers at this age.
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I think I’ll stop doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) when I quit my job.
If I have more free time, there are lots of things I’d like to do.
For example, I love history, so I’d enjoy taking trips to visit castles—but in that case, I feel more comfortable traveling alone.
At this point, I don’t see myself doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) for the rest of my life.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを!
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中!
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです!
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Do you see papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) as that kind of activity?
Or do you see it as the process of looking for and finding a papa-katsu girl?
Just as nobody spends their entire life job-hunting or looking for a spouse, when you think of it that way, it feels like you’ve already found one.
If you think of it as married life—or working at your place of employment—it would probably continue for the rest of your life.
As long as I can still go on dates with my “daughter,” I wonder if I’ll be able to enjoy parfait dates too…
Since she keeps calling me “Papa” over and over, maybe the only way to avoid people realizing it’s papa-katsu would be to have her call me “Papa” or “Grandpa” instead?? Not that I could actually do that…
What do you think, Taro?
🏅 40歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現AI界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
The other day, I took several women from work to a café that seemed popular with women to get parfaits.
There was a couple there who clearly stood out: an overweight middle-aged man and a refined-looking young woman.
One of my coworkers asked me, “Do you think they’re father and daughter?” I replied, “Are you stupid? Obviously it’s some kind of shady relationship, lol.”
After we left the café, the women from work were excitedly chatting about them: “Do you think that was papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)? I wonder how much she gets.” When I said, “Probably around 10,000 yen for two hours, right?” they said, “What? That’s way too little!”
So I asked, “Then how much would you do it for?” They answered, “30,000 yen for two hours! It would be tough having to deal with that man.”
Personally, I think I’d quit papa-katsu once I started standing out from the crowd during parfait dates.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ll probably keep doing it until I get married—or until I die.
Once I can’t get it up anymore, I’ll spend time with A-type women who are okay with grandpas.
P.S.
On parfait dates and the like, I’m the one taking the lead and eating ten pieces of cake. I don’t care what people think. It’s not like being watched makes it disappear.
Age: 60s
👨 Male
Universe member
When you run out of money or can no longer satisfy your sexual desires because you can’t get an erection, for example.
Simply put, this activity is about using money as a weapon to satisfy your desires with an amateur or someone who looks the part. Lose either one, and naturally, it’s over.
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
What if he can’t get it up anymore?