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Oct 20, 2022 11:22
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I sent a polite message wrapping things up, assuming either that he no longer wanted to meet or that he was genuinely busy, but I received another one-sided message in reply.
He said that he had met several other women and was still in touch with all of them. However, he keeps sending me these completely one-sided messages, and I don’t get the impression that he’s making any effort to engage with me as a person.
I’m probably low on his list of priorities, and I’m starting to wonder whether I should continue this relationship at all.
I’d really appreciate hearing your advice.
Sorry if this is a clumsy question, and thank you in advance.
4 answers
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I think it comes down to whether he’s someone you want to continue seeing.
If you do want to keep seeing him, it’s fine to spend some time getting to know him. If not, I recommend politely but clearly turning him down.
Other
I leave messages from nightlife establishments unread, so I think you can do the same. They’ll eventually stop, but if they keep coming, I block them.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
I think he simply wants someone to send messages to on LINE, so you can just leave them unread—or delete them without reading.
If you don’t even want to know that he’s sending you messages, then block him.
Since you’ve already said goodbye and wrapped things up, I think it’s perfectly fine to block him.
It’s good to value the connections you make, but in this case, he’ll probably continue behaving the same way. I think it’s best to part ways and stop contacting him.
🏅 大阪の昼寝引きこもりトレーダー
スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Send him a picture of Yumi Adachi with the caption, “If you feel sorry for me, give me money.”