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Oct 19, 2022 16:43
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If you’ve had breast augmentation, will it say “has had breast augmentation” on the page viewed by male members?
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If you tell them, it’ll probably be mentioned in the staff comments on your profile. If you don’t want that, you can just keep it hidden. They’re not going to interrogate you with something like, “Don’t lie! That’s definitely plastic surgery, right?” so you can probably get away with it. Search YouTube for the Wednesday Downtown segment “The Theory That It’s Hard to Point Out When a Female Celebrity We Haven’t Seen in Ages Has Had Extreme Plastic Surgery.” It’s hilarious—an all-time great episode lol. The important thing is that even though she’d had such obvious work done, nobody pointed it out.
There’s a relatively long-standing female member who, as far as I can tell, started having extensive work done partway through. That’s just my impression since it isn’t mentioned in her comments, but her nose bridge is now so pronounced that she looks like one of those carved wooden bears from Hokkaido. I originally shortlisted her because I liked her natural face, but the photos from her reshoot looked completely different. The shape around her nose has gone beyond CGI and is practically a CAD drawing—like an F-117 or a Zumwalt-class destroyer. She probably has incredible stealth capabilities…
Well, that’s just my personal impression, and it’s terribly rude, so I apologize. But I do feel that the face women aim for through plastic surgery doesn’t always match what men find attractive. Makeup can change things quite a lot too, so I think it’s better to stop somewhere around there. Recently, I was really impressed by a YouTube video showing Naoko Ken before and after makeup. But I suppose women don’t see it that way. There must be all kinds of darkness that only women understand—Anya is excited.
Speaking from a male member’s perspective, I’d like women who’ve had breast surgery to disclose it beforehand. They look fine, but at a dating club, you enter into an adult relationship (intimate), so there will inevitably be physical contact. You can tell by touch. What bothers me is that, because there’s an artificial implant inside, I imagine the sensation may be somewhat lacking. And when I say touching, I don’t mean absent-mindedly squeezing. You’re caressing while being mindful of things like the mammary glands and lymphatic areas. Some women’s breasts also become firm when they’re aroused, and you adjust how you touch them based on those reactions. I dislike the idea of that kind of interactive exchange being hindered by an implant. Of course, there are other areas, so you can still make the evening work, but it undeniably feels like playing shogi with your rook and bishop removed—a noticeable handicap.
To be perfectly honest, once you fall for someone, it doesn’t really matter. I’ve even had a relationship lasting more than ten years with a woman who’d had breast surgery. But at a dating club, the usual flow is to begin with physical attraction and then deepen the relationship. So I’d appreciate a little more consideration than would be necessary with an ordinary encounter.
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Age: Private
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Universe staff
I believe there wasn’t a specific field for it, so staff would note it internally and respond if a man asked about it. However, some women say in their profiles that they’ve had cosmetic surgery, so it seems to depend on the staff member whether they include it or not.
Most men don’t really complain about cosmetic surgery itself, but some are particular about breast augmentation. If the woman doesn’t disclose it and the staff aren’t aware either, a man who notices when touching her breasts may file a complaint.
I’m not sure why some men care so much, but since they do, it’s probably safest to disclose it.
Even if you meet a man who dislikes cosmetic surgery or breast augmentation, if he eventually finds out and the relationship ends anyway, it may be better to date someone who isn’t concerned about it.
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I’m extremely self-conscious about my face as a female member and would like to get cosmetic surgery, but I can’t at the moment due to personal circumstances. I’m Potassium.
I’m not sure whether it’s mentioned in the information provided, but I was asked about it during my interview as well. That said, I think it’s unclear what level of treatment counts as “plastic surgery.” I’m not even sure whether procedures like double-eyelid stitches or thread lifts count, and cosmetic clinics call things like fat-dissolving injections and jaw Botox “minor procedures.”
Since there’s no clear definition, if you don’t consider yourself to have had plastic surgery, I think it’s also fine not to mention it.
That said, if I’d had something major done, like a full nose implant or liposuction—or if I planned to have those procedures in the future—I think there could be benefits to mentioning it during the interview.
When it comes to the nose, I’d be worried that someone with extreme preferences might do something like use a nose hook and cause it to become misshapen. I’d also be scared of damaging my carefully treated face if things got too rough, like having a pillow pressed against it too hard.
If you’re planning to maintain or update your look over a long-term arrangement, you have to take downtime into account, so I feel it might be better to find a man who understands that. A once-a-month arrangement might work, though…
In that sense, by mentioning it beforehand, some men might make an offer precisely because they understand. So depending on the type and extent of the procedures, I think it may be a good idea to disclose them.
That’s what I think.
Sorry, this answer goes in a completely different direction from the question…
Just my personal opinion.
Oh, my papa (a male supporter) is very understanding and supportive of cosmetic procedures, so even when I’m a little swollen the day after getting fat-dissolving injections, he still spoils me lol.
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I’ve never seen anyone explicitly state that they’ve had breast augmentation.
Maybe they tell the men who inquire.
But I get the impression that women who’ve had breast augmentation also tend to edit their faces quite heavily.
Personally, I use that as one of the things I go by.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I forget which one it was, but I think it’s better to disclose it and have it written down.