I’ve been active in the club for three years. I was diagnosed with prostate cancer and will be having surgery in December. I’ve asked the doctor several times about the risks of the procedure. I was told they would try to preserve the nerves involved in erections as much as possible, but they couldn’t guarantee anything, and I’m feeling really depressed.
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To anyone answering: Is there anyone who kept going without giving up?
I feel like I’ll cry if I can’t get an erection.
👤Asked byGuest👨GenderMale🎂50s👑Universe male member
> Once you’re past 50, you don’t have time to be making money.
That’s so true.
There are still nearly two months until December, so you should find the woman with the best possible chemistry—either among the women you’re already seeing, or, if there isn’t anyone, by looking for someone new.
Not being able to get it up is a serious problem.
But there is one possible saving grace.
You have no choice but to find a woman who has perfect chemistry with you and enjoys herself immensely.
If you can find that one special woman, even without getting an erection, I think you can still both get excited and enjoy yourselves by taking pleasure in watching her reach the heights of pleasure.
There’s no time to waste.
Spend some wonderful time with her. If that happens, I’m sure you’ll be able to enjoy many happy days throughout next year as well.
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On top of the fear of cancer, you must also be feeling terribly discouraged at the thought that you may no longer be able to feel like a man. That sounds incredibly depressing. I can’t fully understand how a man must feel.
Is there a woman you’re still seeing?
I once broke up with someone who was suffering from an enlarged prostate because he never told me, and I only found out about his condition afterward. It came as a shock. Maybe he felt even more pressure because I enjoy sex.
Please try to open up to the woman you’re seeing, at least to some extent. It’s better to face it together than for her to be left in the dark—and even if things don’t work out, knowing the situation will allow her to respond with kindness.
For now, your life is what matters most, so get whatever treatment you need to save it. After that, you can figure out the rest!
I hope you’ll be able to get back to enjoying life again. I’ll be looking forward to hearing from you.
Marika
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Are you okay?
You must have a lot on your mind.
I once met a man who had undergone a vasectomy and was worried because six months hadn’t passed yet. For those six months, we supported each other—spending time together, taking baths, and even just having meals.
You may be feeling anxious or down, but please don’t push yourself too hard (∗•ω•∗)
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I don’t have any experience with this, so I’m not sure whether it’s appropriate for me to say much, but… are you physically okay? And emotionally as well?
If my papa (a male supporter) were in your position, I’d want you to talk to me. I’d also still want to see you after your surgery.
That isn’t the only reason I’m seeing you, and if there’s anything I can do to help you feel even a little good, I’d want to do my best. I don’t think reaching orgasm is everything—I’d simply like you to enjoy yourself if possible.
And even if we only had dinner together, I think it would still be nice if we could enjoy our time together.
I don’t know what the person you’re currently seeing is like, but there are people who feel this way too!
Please take good care of yourself. I hope your surgery goes well.
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Female member, Potassium here.
I’m sure it must be very upsetting to be diagnosed with cancer, but first and foremost, I hope your surgery goes well. I’ve never experienced cancer myself, so I’m sorry if these words don’t carry much weight…
Speaking as a female member, I’d be perfectly fine with it if I liked the papa.
I’d like us to work together—maybe even try our best?—so that we can both enjoy ourselves.
In your case, you’ve had surgery, and even for men who naturally have difficulty getting an erection, I think it can be something they worry about a lot. But precisely because of that, when you do reach that point together, I think it can feel especially good and fun, and help you feel more emotionally connected.
Of course, not every woman will feel that way, and it would be difficult to pressure a woman into anything, so I think it’s best to find a balance that works for both of you.
If you can find either a wonderful girl who’s focused on the money and will see things through, or a girl who’s attentive to your feelings, I’m sure you’ll be fine.
As for the half-hearted girls who can’t do either, just cut them loose one after another, haha.
First of all, I’m wishing you a successful surgery and a smooth recovery.
Well, that’s just my hope and personal opinion, though.
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Even if a problem does arise, as Mac-san mentioned, I may still be able to get an erection with ICI.
I was worried that women would be put off by the idea of an injection in my penis, but surprisingly, they’re often curious enough to ask me to inject myself right in front of them.
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