My papa’s birthday is coming up, and I’m thinking of giving him a small gift or treating him to a meal. But since I receive an allowance from him, it feels a little strange to spend money to celebrate his birthday. Would it be better just to tell him, “Happy birthday”?
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For the male members, what kind of birthday celebration would make you happy? And for the female members, how do you usually celebrate your papa’s birthday?
I’d love to hear your thoughts.
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I sent a LINE Gift for the first time (*^^*)
I spent a while debating whether to give something in person or invite him out for a meal, but in the end I decided to try sending a LINE Gift!
I just couldn’t bring myself to invite him out directly. With a LINE Gift, you can include a message, and the recipient enters their own address, so you don’t need to know where to send it (((o(*ﾟ▽ﾟ*)o)))
I was thinking, “I’m the one inviting him out, so how would the allowance work? Huh? I genuinely want to celebrate, so I’ll just send something anyway!!” That was basically my thought process (∗•ω•∗)
By the way, for my monthly arrangement partner—not my papa—I’m sending cake and a letter (((o(*ﾟ▽ﾟ*)o)))
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That sounds lovely.
I’m sure they’ll appreciate the thought you put into planning the celebration itself as a gift, too♪
Physical gifts can be a bit hit or miss, and handmade items depend on your skills as well. So it might be fun to give them the gift of spending a day together trying something they’ve always wanted to do.
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If it’s given with genuine thought and meant as a celebration, I’m happy with anything. But since I generally earn and buy the things I want myself, handmade gifts make me happiest.
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If he remembers to send you a congratulatory LINE first thing, doesn’t that mean you’re a papa (a male supporter) he likes pretty well?
Honestly, that might make me happiest—without him having to spend any money...
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What each papa (a male supporter) wants varies, but for one papa’s first birthday after we met, I surprised him with a business card holder. He was happy and apparently still uses it.
After that, though, surprises don’t really work anymore—you might give away the fact that you’re planning something—so I started asking my papas directly what they’d like.
They usually say, “I don’t need anything,” so I suggest things myself, like, “Then I’d love to treat you to dinner!”
One papa’s birthday is coming up soon, and after talking it over, we decided I’ll treat him to lunch at his favorite restaurant.
For this papa, I gave him a business bag for his birthday last year. We went shopping for it together, and I paid with my card. He still uses it every day, so it turned into a lovely keepsake.
So I think the quickest way is simply to ask him. Use his birthday as a chance to make yourself even more of a favorite!
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I’m the type who’s grateful for anything I’m offered, but I think something as simple as, “Shall we go grab dinner?” would be fine.
Although I have a feeling it would end with, “I’ll pay,” once we got there anyway（笑).
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So it’s for your papa’s birthday!
I asked for advice here when I was planning a celebration for my papa too, haha.
I got lots of helpful suggestions from everyone. First, I prepared a thank-you letter expressing my appreciation for our time together, along with a present, and I also tried seducing my papa in some sexy lingerie, haha.
He was happy with all of it! Recently, I even cooked for him and made a photo album. I suppose these are things I can do because he’s single.
I like to express my everyday gratitude through both words and actions, so that’s what I do. But I’m sure your papa will be happy that you remembered his birthday and want to celebrate it with him.
I hope you have a wonderful birthday celebration♡
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I’d be happy with any little gift if he surprised me by celebrating my birthday.
That said, as you get older, birthdays aren’t really something you feel the need to celebrate that much, lol.
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Why not talk to them about it directly?
You could ask what kind of small gift they’d like or what sort of meal they’d enjoy. They might suggest something modest that wouldn’t be a burden, or say that the thought itself is what makes them happy.
It wouldn’t be a surprise, but I feel that talking it over with them is nice in itself.
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A heartfelt gesture is enough.
I don’t think it has to be a physical gift, though celebrating without giving something tangible might be a little more difficult.
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