If that’s what you believe, it seems you joined without having that misunderstanding cleared up. Please contact your nearest branch at any time, and our concierge will be happy to explain it again.
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Wait, wait—what’s going on?
What did you come to this club for?
You’ve got it completely backward.
The allowance comes first—that’s why you’re able to date younger women, right?
The allowance is a given, the basic premise.
After that, it’s about how the two of you can enjoy a comfortable relationship.
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You’ve got it wrong!!
It’s the questioner who doesn’t seem to understand what should be obvious.
This club—or rather, any dating club operating in Tokyo—has filed the required notification under Tokyo’s regulations, unless it’s operating illegally.
And under those regulations, a dating club is defined as “a relationship involving compensation.”
In other words, when meeting someone through a dating club in Tokyo, it’s perfectly normal for compensation—in other words, an allowance—to be paid or received.
I think the questioner should take another look at what dating clubs are all about.
If you don’t like a world where this is considered normal, then you should use a dating site or app instead.
This doesn’t really feel like a question so much as a rant. I was going to hide it, but since it already has so many answers, I suppose I’ll leave it up.
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You’re standing too low, lol.
That’s why the view is so bad, lol.
Once you realize that you’re the reason things aren’t working out, you might find somewhere to climb in silence!
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Are most of the PJs at this club under the impression that it’s a given they’ll receive an allowance from men?
You said “this club,” didn’t you…
Did you come here from some app or a low-end club?
This is the largest dating club in Japan—a place for allowance-based relationships.
Every now and then, I get offers from people who don’t know they’re supposed to provide an allowance. Do you actually listen when the staff explains things?
Clean out your ears and listen carefully. Do you even have any comprehension?
Don’t assume you’re entitled to sleep with a woman for free!
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Since this is a dating club, I assume the relationship comes with an allowance.
That said, calling it “a given” does sound a little off to me, since it leaves no room for gratitude… Though if you put it that way, I suppose it is a given.
As for the amount and the exact arrangement, I believe both parties should discuss and agree on the terms.
Regarding the recent question about traveling, for example, if both parties cover the travel expenses, then there may be no need for an allowance. Or perhaps the allowance is paid separately even when the travel expenses are covered. As long as both parties are satisfied with the arrangement and agree to go on the trip, it’s nobody else’s business.
Likewise, someone might say, “If you’re giving me an expensive gift, I won’t need an allowance today.” Or, “Those are separate matters.” I think everyone has their own way of looking at it.
It probably depends on what the woman considers most important in participating in papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
Are you looking for a casual sex partner or something similar? I’d recommend looking somewhere other than a dating club.
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That last line sounds like a parting shot, but isn’t it proof that you’ve always been the weaker party?
That’s what clubs like this are for in the first place.
Sure, it’s a free-choice relationship, but women generally register with these clubs expecting that they can receive an allowance through dating.
If the relationship deepens, she might eventually say she wants to be with you and doesn’t need an allowance for trips.
But in this case, it simply means things hadn’t reached that stage yet.
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Of course, you should agree on it beforehand.
I don’t care how much the allowance is. If it’s too low, she can simply decline. The problem is when things get muddled, like in the recent question—and in that case, it hurts the woman.
I feel like I’ve said this somewhere before, but it’s far better for some old guy who can’t even act like a gentleman to get hurt than for the woman to be hurt. In other words, it’s entirely his own fault.
Canceling would be inconsiderate to the travel destination too, so he can just go by himself.
And to the person asking: you’re in your 50s—please stop asking such ridiculous questions.
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Of course—that should be a given.
The same goes for everything else.
Money is involved, and there’s always the worry of being cut off.
You should be able to enjoy it with the peace of mind that your allowance is secure, you’re liked, and you’re valued.
The things that should be a given need to go beyond that—become so natural you’re not even consciously aware of them, like the air you breathe.
Do you know what another name for a dating club is? The “Club of the Obvious.”
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Whoever loses their temper first loses~ lol
Come back when you’ve learned your lesson.
Don’t think you can intimidate women and get your way just because you’re weak. LMAO
There was so much grass I thought I could play golf, but this whole place is rough all over.
Taro
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