When I had dinner with an acquaintance and each of our papas, I saw that she was getting 150,000 yen for dinner only.
This content is machine-translated.
When I asked her about it, it sounded like she was getting 150,000, 100,000, or 90,000 yen for dinner only from various papas.
I’m getting about that much from my papa too, but it includes dinner and going back to his place. I’m jealous of my acquaintance. What kind of interactions would make it possible to get 150,000 yen or so for dinner only?
👤Asked byGuest👩GenderFemale🎂Not stated👑Universe female member
Know when you have enough.
Even when you’re already receiving plenty, envying others will make you look petty.
It’ll make you less charming, and your allowance may drop even more.
Let’s stay cute and grateful.
—Akari
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
Staff member Teramoto here as well.
You haven’t really mentioned the financial side, but your friend sounds incredible. You don’t often hear of things going that far.
At the end of the day, it comes down to the people involved, and timing often makes all the difference.
Rather than worrying too much about what others are doing, take a moment to consider whether the burden on you is balanced by the allowance. If it isn’t, you may have no choice but to look for someone else.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
Honestly, I’d love to meet a papa that generous!
I think your only option is to have that acquaintance teach you their secret tips. That said, you’re already in a pretty fortunate position yourself, so just go at your own pace!
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
As far as I understand it, you start by choosing your papas.
So, as a basic requirement, you need to receive offers from at least dozens of papas—and not just temporarily when you first register, but consistently over time. The initial rush of offers doesn’t count, since a lot of them come from men specifically looking for inexperienced, naive girls.
That’s where the real discernment comes in. When a man makes an offer, it means the woman is already his type, but he hasn’t reached the “I like her♡” stage yet.
The question is how to make him fall for you.
Apparently, there are several tricks, but they all stem from one major principle: never ask for anything yourself.
You accept whatever he gives you, but you never directly ask for money or gifts. Even if he offers something generous, like “How about several hundred thousand yen?” you don’t jump at it. Instead, you stay wary, thinking you’re being tested, and brush it off with something like, “I do need money, but unless I can truly feel that you genuinely care about me, I can’t accept it.”
That makes him wonder, “So money doesn’t work on her? What am I supposed to do?” He becomes obsessed. Eventually, in front of that girl, money starts to feel completely worthless—like it’s merely a greeting or a business card. He ends up handing over stacks of bills without even counting them.
In other words, the key is drawing the man into a strange kind of spell where he starts thinking, “Money doesn’t work on her, so money must be worthless—why not just give it all away?”
She’s basically a magician.
Apparently, from a magician’s point of view, it’s possible to identify, to some extent, which men are especially susceptible to the spell.
P.S.
A papa’s weapon is money. But when a girl looks like she’s practically drooling for it, the weapon’s power level goes up, and the papa gets carried away.
If you do the opposite—convince and brainwash him into believing how powerless money really is—the weapon’s power level drops. But then the papa eventually realizes that money is the only weapon he has. Once that happens, he starts throwing money around like it’s being given away.
Religion works the same way. It preaches things like, “Money can’t buy happiness,” while ultimately taking people’s money. You get what I mean?
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
You understand that earning ¥150,000 for just one dinner isn’t normal, especially when so many people earn around ¥150,000 a month from part-time work, right?
If you want to do something out of the ordinary, it’ll be difficult if you simply rely on what others tell you.
You need to figure out your own way.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I think you should ask that woman.
For example, some of the religious organizations making headlines now have people donating enough money to file for personal bankruptcy—without even having an adult relationship. (lol)
With that in mind, I think getting someone to give you around ¥150,000—far from enough to drive them into bankruptcy—should be possible if you can brainwash them in the same way.
Basically, it all comes down to brainwashing.
Good luck.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
If you mean having several papas, you probably won’t be able to become one even if you want to.
With just one, though, you might happen to meet such a papa by chance.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
Why not ask her to introduce you to her papa (a male supporter)? If she’s receiving that much just for dinner, you could meet him yourself and see how it goes.
Even if she doesn’t introduce you directly, you could ask to join them for dinner. Just observing what kind of conversations she has and how she interacts with him could be a learning experience.
Leave your own papa out of it, though. Otherwise, you’ll probably end up worrying too much about his feelings.
She may simply be exceptional and worth that much for dinner alone, or perhaps the man is someone who feels that spending 150,000 yen on dinner is worthwhile.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
Learn to be skeptical of people, lol. Generally speaking, I’d say your situation already sounds like a pretty great deal. That person’s story about getting even better terms is practically urban-legend territory. I’m not saying it’s impossible—it’s a matter of probability—but having several people like that would normally be hard to believe. It’s only natural to suspect there’s some kind of trick involved.
I’m not saying it’s a lie. It might be true. But you should approach it with at least some skepticism. Still, I’m sure you’re curious, right? Then ask them every little detail. If contradictions start piling up, it’s probably a lie. And if it turns out to be true because they have some incredibly effective secret, then you can simply copy it and try it yourself.
Oh, in that sense, you might want to watch a drama called “Trick” (it was also made into movies). I think Season 1 is the best. I liked how it basically said that most suspicious-sounding stories in this world are lies, while still leaving room for an occult-like possibility that, although unlikely, some of them might actually be real.
It stars Hiroshi Abe and Yukie Nakama. By the way, I only recently found out that Yukie Nakama played Sadako. I did think that straight, long hair looked like Yukie Nakama, but the image was so different that I didn’t realize it. It was about as shocking as learning that Anya from “SPY×FAMILY” and Hinatsuru from the Entertainment District Arc of “Demon Slayer” are voiced by the same actress.
Taro
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
As long as you’re receiving the same allowance, you don’t need to worry about what kind of arrangement it is.
It’s papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so everyone does things differently, and there’s bound to be a mix of truth and lies…
Since you’re not completely against meeting at his place or ruling it out entirely, I don’t think you need to be so particular about it. If you force yourself to do something you’re not comfortable with, it’ll only make things harder for you.
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
I think it would be best to ask that acquaintance, but even if you have the same kind of exchanges, there’s no guarantee that things will turn out the same as they did between your acquaintance and her papa (a male supporter) in any of these combinations:
1. You and your acquaintance’s papa (a male supporter)
2. Your acquaintance and your papa (a male supporter)
3. You and your papa (a male supporter)
(3 replies left)
(3 replies left)
💡 This question has no password registered, so the reply feature is unavailable.
If you access from the device/browser used to post the question, you may be able to set a password later.
