I’m hoping to date multiple women, so I want to practice safe sex.
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If I only offer French kissing, always use condoms, avoid oral sex on the genitals, and keep other touching and penetration conventional, would women find that boring?
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It probably depends on the person.
Of course, I always use condoms, but the women I see regularly are pretty sexual, so they enjoy cunnilingus more than using my hands. Once you learn how to make them climax, it’s fun when they do—and it keeps things exciting afterward. I also can’t do without receiving an enthusiastic blowjob in return. I like 69 as well, so not doing it would feel unsatisfying.
Aside from AIDS, most STIs can be treated with medication, so my approach is to have a doctor lined up who can test me on weekends or at night, provide the results right away, and prescribe medication immediately. (It’s not covered by insurance, though.) Early detection and early treatment.
I think the questioner’s approach is fine too.
Everyone should weigh their own desires against the risks and make their own decision.
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Rather than asking here, I think you should have an honest conversation with the woman involved.
Everyone has their own opinions, so please communicate properly with her.
That said, Rin’s answer is absolutely spot-on.
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Using a condom is non-negotiable.
As for everything else, I think it’s fine as long as both people can enjoy sex that way.
That said, from a woman’s perspective, it might feel like overly impersonal sex—or like she’s being treated as nothing more than a hole.
Oral sex is my biggest strength, so I make a point of practicing safe sex, but that’s the one area where I take a risk and put in extra effort.
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Whether she finds it boring or thinks it’s really great depends on her interests and experience.
There’s really no way to say for sure. Her reaction might just be an act, too.
I think the only way to judge is by how quickly she responds, whether you’re able to set a date right away, and whether the arrangement continues over time.
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I can’t really say without knowing your age and the age of the person making the offer.
That said, women who are involved in a transactional relationship may appreciate it if things progress in a straightforward, no-frills way.
With a papa who’s closer to your age or someone you genuinely like, being intimate with each other can feel incredibly happy and fulfilling.
That’s just my personal opinion, though.
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As for condoms, I think that’s a given even if you’re not seeing multiple people.
As for what it would involve, I guess you can only ask your partner... Personally, I’d be happy if she let me go down on her.
What am I even saying? This is so embarrassing.
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