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Oct 4, 2022 10:51
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I’m simply worried that some of the women I’m already seeing might feel offended if the profile I initially registered remains visible indefinitely. However, since I’m seeing multiple women and regularly making offers, I can’t exactly make my profile private, which is why I asked the question.
I understand that several of the respondents are also seeing multiple partners. I assume Makeo Otoko has no particular concerns, since he appears to have told the women he’s seeing about his multiple relationships, although he mentioned that reaching his current situation came with its share of pain.
The staff seem reluctant to answer my earlier question, perhaps because they suspect my motives. I would appreciate it if others could share how they handle the visibility of their profiles. Thank you in advance.
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Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
> It seems the staff suspect you, so they won’t answer your earlier question.
Universe has around 140 staff members, so for every single one of them to be suspicious of you—you must be quite a questioner.
More importantly, I think you should realize that you’re asking in the wrong place.
If you asked the staff directly, you’d get an answer, so why post it here?
It even makes me wonder whether you’re really a male member in the first place.
You could probably find out by asking the women you’ve dated, and Marika already gave you an answer first. I’m not sure what to make of the fact that you don’t believe it.
When you look at it that way,
it really does seem like you’re asking this question with some ulterior motive, doesn’t it?
👨 Male
Universe member
I keep my profile visible only to women I’ve made offers to.
If another woman accidentally sent me a message like, “You seem wonderful,” I’d feel obligated to make her an offer too...
I prefer to keep things discreet, so I focus on a very small, select group—actually, I only pursue one arrangement at a time (lol).
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Don’t worry. One woman who made me an offer told me that men’s limited-access profiles become invisible pretty quickly.
In my case, it’s difficult to hide that I’m seeing multiple women, so I have to tell my monthly partners(笑).
Many women are seeing multiple people too, so they feel relieved when I’m upfront about it.
After I tell them, a lot of women open up about their other papas. On the other hand, I also listen to their complaints about papas who tell them to choose just one person or who start treating it like a serious romance, and I help them think through how to handle those situations.
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I’m Rin, a female member of SALON.
Since SALON doesn’t have profiles for either women or men, why not join SALON if that’s what concerns you?
Profiles weren’t part of the system to begin with, so I don’t think you need to worry about it!
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I don’t want to receive likes from women I’m not interested in, so I keep my profile private.
At the same time, I want women I’ve approached to be able to view my profile and feel at ease, so I’ve set it to “visible only to women I’ve approached.” It’s been that way since I joined.
I’m also seeing multiple women, and I’m upfront with the women I’m dating that I’m in multiple relationships. They often show interest in what kind of women I’m seeing and what those relationships are like, and they’re equally open about their own situations.
What kind of “pain” are you referring to, exactly? Personally, I haven’t experienced any disadvantage because of this. If anything, I feel we’ve been able to build good relationships by speaking honestly about our situations, becoming people who can share things they can’t talk about with others.