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Oct 3, 2022 12:50
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赤井 智和（スタッフ）
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I’m Akai from the staff, and I’d like to answer as well.
We also help coordinate arrangements, and offers for the day after tomorrow are quite common. Offers for the next day—or even the same day—aren’t unusual either.
Everyone’s timing is different, so I think most men who make an offer genuinely intend to meet.
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Age: 50s
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You can turn him down, of course, but since the papa pays once the offer is accepted, he’s probably really eager to meet.
Maybe he’s super busy and just happened to have an opening—or he could be incredibly wealthy（笑）
Maybe another woman turned down his offer, and you just happened to be available around the same time.
What a waste, though. There are women who don’t get any offers at all. If I were a woman, I’d accept as many offers as I could, then decide afterward which people I wanted to continue seeing...
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
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The questioner’s idea of what’s normal isn’t necessarily everyone else’s.
Men are spending money to make the offer, so of course they expect to meet in person.
If you’re a popular woman getting lots of offers, you can simply turn down those kinds of offers.
Other
If it were a year from now, I’d understand asking the same question, but if it’s tomorrow or the day after, that’s perfectly normal. If anything, it even sounds like they’re fully intending to meet.
Marika
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
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Age: Private
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For men, “tomorrow or the day after” is roughly equivalent to about 1.2 weeks later for women.
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
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The day after tomorrow would be perfectly normal.
Tomorrow would admittedly be difficult, but there are men who suddenly want to get intimate or whose schedules suddenly open up, so being available tomorrow as well would probably give you more opportunities.
As for men who ask for the same day (there are a few), most women would normally turn them down.
(Only about one in 10–20 would agree.)
For same-day arrangements, I honestly feel like the setting fee should be doubled. (lol)
(Though that’s really just because of how much more difficult it is.)