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Oct 1, 2022 21:05
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Since you’re asking her to give up time she would normally spend working, please calculate the total time she’ll be tied up—including the time it takes to get there and return—and pay her accordingly.
She’ll probably also need to buy a few things for the flight, so how about starting at around ¥200,000?
Surely you didn’t fail to consider the travel time there and back as part of the time she’d be tied up, did you?
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
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In this case, you should probably offer an allowance that reflects the woman’s time.
That would mean at least ¥10,000 per hour, plus the allowance, transportation costs, and hotel expenses.
Even then, she may still turn you down.
The main reason is that, despite having had an online date, you’re still someone she has never actually met in person.
Even if it’s dinner only (no intimacy), asking someone to travel a long distance can leave her feeling exhausted afterward unless the experience is really worthwhile.
I think your chances of success would improve if you first met her for a date in Japan, gave her a good impression, and then invited her to see you again.
Other
First of all, I think the questioner should make a beeline for the girl, lol.
Like Lupin leaping at Fujiko, leaving his pants fluttering in midair, lol.
Other
Are you a foreigner? Your Japanese is a little unusual.
From Hong Kong or somewhere around there?
In that case, it really does sound like a romance scam unless you pay upfront, so you should ask them and arrange payment in advance.
It probably won’t happen, but if she cancels at the last minute, consider it a learning experience.
Marika
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
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👨 Male
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Why not look at it from the opposite perspective?
For example, if someone asked you to travel overseas just to meet for one or two hours, how much would you need to be paid to feel it was worth it?
Thinking about it that way might make the answer clearer.
You’d be giving up two days and one night of your time, after all. How much do you think that time is worth?
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Age: 50s
👨 Male
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A two-day commitment, huh?
I’d want at least 100,000 yen, paid upfront by bank transfer or PayPay. If she wants to go overseas, I might be okay with the minimum amount—but getting paid before departure is important.
Age: Private
👨 Male
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Everyone’s different, so I think you should discuss it with the woman.