I ended up sending “You seem wonderful” to a lot of men.
Is this a feature that should only be used for people you’re genuinely interested in?
Also, I’ve realized that I’m quite overweight, so I probably need to start with losing weight before I can receive any offers at all.
Have any of you ever made an offer to an overweight woman? What was the deciding factor?
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I’m Teramoto from the Tokyo branch of Universe Club, and I’d like to share my thoughts as well.
I don’t think there’s any problem with sending “You seem wonderful” to many men. However, responses tend to be lower when the message is clearly unnatural or when you send it without saying anything, despite having a space available for comments.
For example, I don’t know where you live, but let’s say you live in Tokyo. If you send “You seem wonderful” without mentioning anything to someone living in Kyushu or Hokkaido—or send a generic message without referring to their location—they may think, “Is she just sending these at random?” and simply ignore it.
After carefully reading a man’s public profile, sending a thoughtful “You seem wonderful” tailored to appeal to him will likely be the quickest way to receive an offer!
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I think “You’re lovely” is better than sending nothing, so sending it to lots of people probably increases your chances.
That said, even if a woman I’m not attracted to sends me “You’re lovely,” it won’t lead to an offer.
There is one woman I overlooked when viewing her profile, but after she sent me “You’re lovely,” I added her to my favorites.
Personally, I don’t make offers to heavier women. I prefer slender women with defined waists.
I imagine women who are plus-size might receive offers from men who are specifically attracted to that body type.
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If you think about whether overweight women are actually popular in real life, you can probably figure out whether you’re likely to get offers.
That said, different people like different things, so if you have an attractive face, you might still receive a few offers.
It seems clubs also register women with various body types in the standard class for men who prefer that kind of woman.
If you’re not getting any offers and want some, you have to do what you can.
Sending “You’re wonderful” is one option, but dieting is also something you can work on right now, isn’t it?
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I’ve lost track of how many messages I’ve sent, so I think you should just send as many as you like.
People have different standards for what counts as generous (well-paying), but I’ve never made an offer myself.
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That sounds great. Since you can send them, I think you should send as many as you’d like.
You’re free to send them, as long as you understand that it won’t necessarily lead to an offer. I think it’s better to do what you can rather than do nothing.
So I think you should go ahead and lose weight too. But rather than doing it just to get offers, it’s better to diet and work on yourself for your own sake.
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I don’t think you need to worry too much. If a woman who isn’t really your type sends you a “You seem lovely” message, you probably don’t give it much thought either.
If you have an idea of why you’re not getting offers, trying to improve in that area could be one option. For example, losing weight if you’re overweight, practicing if you’re not good at makeup, or researching hairstyles, colors, and clothes that suit you.
Rather than trying to flatter anyone, I think it’s better to become someone who feels more confident, cheerful, and positive in her own way. Then maybe the offers will start coming.
That’s just what I think, though.
Marika
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