I have absolutely no confidence that I’ll receive any offers. Do you think offers will eventually come if I steadily work on improving myself?
Also, should I avoid getting my hopes up about the favorites feature?
One person added me to their favorites, so I replied, “That’s wonderful.”
Is dating through a dating club more of a long-term game?
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Not at all.
It’s a short-term, three-month push. Since profiles are uploaded in the order people register, you’re most likely to receive offers when you first sign up.
Your next opportunity is when you have new photos taken. If you haven’t received any offers by then, it may help to carefully consider the appearance, makeup, hairstyle, clothing, and profile that papa (male supporters) tend to prefer.
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You should reflect the ways you’ve worked on yourself in your profile.
It’s also a good idea to make use of the favorites feature. Rather than simply sending “You seem lovely,” try reading the other person’s profile and adding a thoughtful comment.
I’m not sure what you mean by a “long-term strategy,” but among the women I’ve offered to meet, some met me within a month and then left or took a break from the club, while others did the same after meeting me more than six months later.
Since newly registered women are more likely to catch people’s attention, relatively speaking, it may be a short-term game. However, if you have your photos retaken, your profile will be featured near the top again.
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The favorites feature was only introduced recently, and I think some women are making good use of it by sending “You’re lovely” with a comment.
By the way, if you send a “You’re lovely” at night, there’s a chance men won’t see it, right?
Before making an offer, I contacted the staff to ask about it, and it does seem that the number of favorites and the number of offers are positively correlated.
But I recently asked about a woman I’m interested in who’s Type A. She had only just registered and hadn’t been on any dates yet, but apparently already had more than 30 favorites. I guess it depends on the dating type, though…
I was just thinking out loud: I wonder if one of the staff members who’s good with data might feature someone in the staff blog.
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Congratulations on joining!
Offers can depend a lot on timing, so while continuing to work on yourself both inside and out, I think it’s best to be patient and wait.
I hope you find a wonderful papa (male supporter).
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Luck plays a part, but I think it’s a short-term game for men as well as women.
When it comes to meeting someone, taking longer doesn’t necessarily make things work out, and the odds don’t improve. If anything, they may actually get worse. If you can’t judge and decide who your best partner is, you may end up making offers—or continuing to accept them—indefinitely.
Whether it’s three days, three weeks, three months, one year, two years, or three years, I think the beginning is especially important for women. Once you start getting too comfortable, the other person may notice.
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If you’re going to work on yourself, do it before your profile photos are taken.
Of course, I think there are benefits to keeping it up! You need the people who make you offers to like you if you want things to continue.
But if you’re worried about getting offers in the first place, then I’d say before the interview is the best time.
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I don’t think simply working on yourself will automatically lead to offers. Unless those improvements are reflected in your profile, they probably won’t translate into offers.
I make offers to most of the women I add to my favorites, but judging from the questions posted in the Q&A box, it seems many men don’t make offers even after adding someone to their favorites, so it’s hard to say.
As for whether it’s a long-term process, that seems to vary from person to person. Some women find someone and leave after just one or two months, while others remain registered for years.
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