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Sep 26, 2022 02:01
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🏅 ４０歳でリアル異世界転生したオッサン l 元金融マン → 現ＡＩ界隈
出張ホストの実技試験合格してるので、対女性への無難な前戯とかマナーに一定の知見あり。
Age: 40s
👨 Male
Universe member
There was a time when it was important to know whether things could develop into an adult relationship (intimate). In those days, I was helped by women in category C, who made things clear quickly, rather than those in category B, who took more time.
These days, my reasons for dating have changed, so I don’t pay much attention to dating types anymore.
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
> Can I change it again?
You can change it as many times as you like.
However, every past change is listed in the comments, so if you become a woman who has changed her type many times, the comments will start out like this:
“On [date], changed from C to B.”
“On [date], changed from B to C.”
“On [date], changed from C to D.”
“On [date], changed from D to C.”
When there are too many of these, men may lose interest in reading the rest of the comments.
And if they don’t read your comments, you won’t receive any offers. So changing your dating type just to get more offers has nothing but disadvantages.
You should think carefully about whether changing your type is really necessary and whether your current type genuinely doesn’t suit you before making a change.
> When men make offers to women, do they care about their type as well as their looks?
Some men specify a dating type when searching, so I think those men do care about it.
Most men probably take the dating type into consideration. If they didn’t, women with type A would receive more offers.
That said, some men are fine with either B or C. In those cases, it probably makes no difference whether you choose B or C.
Other
I used to think B-type was better, but for me, appearance comes first. Whether things continue after that seems to depend on how well our personalities match.
So I guess the type doesn’t really matter.
Other
Simply put, I think the clientele is different for Type C and Type B.
Type C attracts men who want to quickly have sex with a woman they find attractive, while Type B attracts men who place additional value on being able to “win a woman over.”
Some men may go back and forth between the two, but basically, it’s safe to think of them as separate segments.
In your case, based on your appearance and profile information, I think you’re better suited to men who prefer Type C. Women should be able to change their type themselves, so you can just switch back to C. Men who prefer Type B tend to be more complicated and can be a hassle, whereas Type C men are simpler and easier to deal with. They’ll probably send you offers without making a big deal about having switched to B and then back to C.
Taro
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
From the standpoint of cost, time, and effort, I only make offers to C-types.
There was one time when I really liked someone and offered her a B-type arrangement, but it didn’t work out. Since then, I’ve gone back to sticking exclusively with C-types.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I get a negative impression when someone changes from B to C, but changing from C to B doesn’t come across negatively.
You can simply write something like this in your profile:
“If we hit it off, I’m perfectly fine with being invited to meet that same day, so I’m personally more of a C type. However, I changed to B because I feel pressured when someone suddenly acts like, ‘You’re okay with it today, right?’”
Other
You can change it from your member page.
That said, some people may wonder if something is going on when someone changes their relationship type frequently. It might help to briefly explain why you changed it in a comment, or let the staff know in advance so they can follow up if needed.
Still, I think it’s best not to change it too often.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
They mainly look at appearance, body type (weight), and age. (Then smoking and letter dates as well.)
With B- and C-types, those factors are hardly relevant. Bust size doesn’t matter either.
If you’ve only just changed your profile, I think offers will come in eventually as long as there’s no bad feedback. Rather than changing it frequently, it’s probably better to leave it for a while and see how things go.