Is there no way for women to find out their own ratings?

I say this every time this kind of thing comes up, but the star-rating system was a strategy devised by the Univa side to increase the number of offers. Probably, anyway. So, President Kida and the other Univa employees who came up with this system are pretty impressive. Just having a rating system in place gets everyone thinking up all sorts of things on their own.

Somehow, I understand that Universe introduced the star ratings and visible favorites with good intentions, but I can’t shake the feeling that they’re limiting women’s chances of building good relationships through their natural appeal and conversation skills. Without the stars, wouldn’t people simply make offers without worrying about how someone treats others? It’s making things unnecessarily complicated and causing problems. Marika

☆5 being classified as sex work… I’m a C cup too, so I might be really upset.

I don’t think either men or women can see their own ratings. I also don’t think men can find out their ratings. However, if something serious enough happens for a woman to be banned, and that man had only made an offer to you, he might hold a grudge against you. Still, Universe isn’t exactly incompetent, so I’m sure they would handle it appropriately. You should probably just be careful about sharing personal information when you meet someone for the first time. As I said in an answer to another question, appearance is my top priority, and whether the relationship continues after that depends on personality, so the number of rating stars doesn’t matter to me. Even if someone has lots of stars and is nice to everyone, you don’t know whether that’s their true personality. As long as I’m ultimately prioritized over his other papa-katsu partners, I’m fine with that. And, in the extreme, if he can completely fool even me, then I’m fine with that too（笑） Honestly, no matter how many stars someone has, you can’t know what they’re like outside of papa-katsu or what their true personality is. So lately, I’ve come to think that appearance alone is perfectly fine as the entry point for me. Also, the number of stars isn’t a game, and neither are the app or rating site some kind of ranking system. It’s not about whether someone is harder to meet or more special because they have more or fewer stars. So even with papa-katsu, I don’t date women with that kind of mindset. Besides, I think viewing women that way is incredibly rude. It would also be rude to the woman I’m currently seeing, who was already rated five stars when I met her and is a Type C. Choosing women based on appearance may be rude of me too, though. Since we’re anonymous and I’ve never met either of you, I’m sorry for putting this so bluntly, but both Kamihikoki-san and Makeo-san seriously piss me off. I’m just like, “Huh?” It’s honestly pretty cringeworthy（笑） I thought, “It’s their way of dating, so they’re free to continue as they please,” but the accumulation of everything up to now, along with this latest exchange, really rubbed me the wrong way, so I made an immature comment. I’m very sorry if I offended you. I’m sure, as you both usually say, you’ll tell me that this makes things more lively and entertaining. I’m also at an age where I care a lot about how people around me evaluate me, but I realized that I need to grow enough to become like the cool, mature people around me—people who don’t worry about that kind of thing. Sorry for starting your Monday morning off this way.

①★★★ ②★★ or ★★★★ ④★★★★★ ⑤★ Please remember this order. The women men like best are ★★★, while they tend to avoid ★★★★★. So there’s no need to flatter your papa (a male supporter) just to raise your star rating. And it’s perfectly fine to give a terrible papa the lowest rating. Edit: To Tsubaki: I feel that men who prefer ★★★★★ are the type to choose restaurants based on their Tabelog ratings. I only make offers to popular women, but when a woman gets lots of offers and still has a ★★★ rating, I take that as proof that she’s turning down other papas. That makes me want to pursue her. On the other hand, if she has ★★★★★, I start wondering whether she gets high ratings from everyone—in other words, whether she’s a woman with all her rough edges smoothed off. Edit 2: The only thing I’m wondering is whether Paper Airplane’s style would work on a 20-year-old premium black girl in Osaka, allowing him to become her first papa. I’ll state categorically that I couldn’t do it. Women aren’t that easy. This isn’t an open field—it’s a dating club. Edit 3: Early, that’s more like it. Maybe because you were a new answerer, all your responses felt overly safe and predictable. I thought you were someone who neither hurt nor helped, so I couldn’t become interested in you. But I’m relieved now. Keep it up. There’s absolutely no problem. That said, if you’re a businessman, I recommend biting into the whiteboard—the opinion—rather than biting into the person. You’re free to attack someone personally, but that just looks painful, and it makes me wonder whether you’re really addressing the point. In this case, it would have been enough to say, “The idea of judging people by star ratings is crap.” I feel like there may even be a hint here as to why the girl Early became close to turned him down twice in a row. Maybe the reason I never fall for women is that I lack the impulsive, pure sincerity Early has. In any case, the fact that you bit back makes me feel like we might become friends. I just looked at my answer, and the wording really was far too rude, so I revised it. Still, what the hell is this answer of mine… This is the truly crappy answer. In the adult-entertainment business, photos are heavily edited, so if you make an offer without thinking, someone like Waka Hanada shows up. For that matter, I lost my virginity at Kanazuen, and the woman was a monster who looked like Akebono and was about 20 years older than me. And I still ejaculated with no problem… tears. So ever since then, I never request a girl with low ratings in the adult-entertainment business. I request girls with not just five stars, but practically 100 stars. That’s what I meant by using the term “adult entertainment.” Maybe I should become an answerer who neither hurts nor helps… It’s incredibly exhausting to keep answering while worrying about people who might be hurt by my opinions or a single turn of phrase. If I answer, “I only make offers to five-star women,” someone else will be hurt by that too, right? And if I answer, “Pay-per-meeting 5 is the best,” people will say, “You too, Brutus?” At this point, I can only laugh, so I’ll laugh. To sum up this question, I suppose the point is that women aren’t food, so a Tabelog-style rating system may not be appropriate. Just the week before last, I had some questions about the star ratings, so I asked a staff member. I realized, “Ah, so that’s what they were doing,” and shared my opinion. The staff member seemed to have been completely unaware of that possibility and said they understood. Edit, lol: I don’t have the ability or the luxury to indulge in idle sleep. Fortunately, I have invincible stamina and a psyche that doesn’t get hurt, so I’m fine. Still, I feel like life might be more enjoyable if I were capable of being hurt. I was born strong, and from childhood I was always the class leader, captain, grade representative, team captain, business owner—in top positions. After being criticized nonstop, I became numb to it… I’m really boring. It’s like I have no joy, anger, sorrow, or pleasure. If I write that, will someone get hurt again? I’ve been criticized and attacked plenty myself, you know! lol Since we’re here, I might as well continue. > Five stars is adult entertainment…? I’m also a C, so that might be incredibly upsetting for me. The male and female answerers here have made countless comments that could be interpreted as looking down on the adult-entertainment business. I wonder how women working hard in that industry would feel if they read them. And I’d like to ask the answerers who complain about getting few offers or low allowances: How do you think women who couldn’t pass the Universe screening and therefore can’t do papa-katsu through Universe would feel reading that? Unfortunately, as long as we’re alive, both you and I hurt people without realizing it and exploit someone in some way. For the record, I have never once made an answer that looked down on feng shui in my past responses. I’ve had girlfriends who were adult entertainers, sexy actresses, lounge hostesses, and women working in men’s esthetic salons, so I believe I understand at least some of the struggles they face.

For both men and women, I think the best way to find out your own rating is to ask the staff. They may not tell you all the details, though… Another option is to look through the post-date surveys and try to find comments that seem to be about you—assuming your date answered honestly. >> To Make-Otoko Are women with a three-star rating popular simply because they’re new members with a standard rating? By the way, I get the impression that Make-Otoko prefers a perfectly polished kind of beauty. Even he would choose a three-star woman over a five-star woman? I was just wondering…! I see! So the idea is that three-star women are popular because they’re difficult to get—more like unreachable flowers—since they turn down other men? With my limited perspective, I assumed that a three-star woman with lots of offers would be the kind of difficult, selective person who isn’t necessarily well-liked, whether for better or worse. (It’s similar to how people prefer reviews that are close to a perfect score.) I learned something new! Thank you! >> To Paper Airplane That makes sense. If I imagine myself as a man, I can see how I might make an offer because it could be fun to win over a spirited girl whom no one else had been able to handle (sorry!). Women’s feelings are complicated, but men’s feelings are still a mystery to me in so many ways too.（笑)

What exactly are you mainly asking about? Why not organize your thoughts a little more and ask again? In terms of overall impression: ①★★★ ＞＞ ②★★ ＞＞＞ ③★★★★ ≧ ④★ ≧ ⑤★★★★★ ≧ ⑥★ zero With four or five stars, I lose interest in pursuing a long-term relationship from the very beginning. So while a higher star rating may make a woman seem more trustworthy, it might also reduce the desire to pursue her. Could it be the club’s unspoken recommendation to leave quickly and move on? There was a girl who had received an offer from Make-Otoko-san and had gotten into Premium Black. If Make-Otoko-san is going to make her an offer, should I make one too? Yes, she’s the girl from ◯◯. Isn’t she in your strike zone? She doesn’t seem to be exactly my type either. Even more so because I already have a favorite girl. I’m thinking of moving up to Black at some point, so I’ll make her an offer. Also, apparently searching for “・と・った” brings her up… I’ll delete that. ＞Tsubaki-san When a man thinks, “I want her to be mine alone,” it’s natural that he also wants to take a chance on a two- or even one-star girl. Once it reaches four or five stars, though, that sense of exclusivity fades. Actually, it’s completely gone. Men and women think in completely opposite—or simply different—ways, and perhaps that’s precisely why they’re drawn to each other. ＞Make-Otoko-san Wait, wasn’t she C rather than B? Oh—that makes sense, I suppose… I checked, and she’s a B type… She’s ◯◯ years old. Maybe the women Make-Otoko-san can see aren’t visible to me yet. Our impressions match. She seems worth checking out. My current favorite is so exceptionally special and exactly my type that I can’t help viewing other women calmly, haha. She may no longer seem like my type at all, haha. Still, being that happy is a good thing. Does that mean my favorite girl is a truly exceptional catch? However, unless Make-Otoko-san makes her an offer too, we won’t be able to verify whether a highly popular, high-allowance woman who receives offers pouring in really has the attitude of “I want to meet Kamihikōki-san regardless of the allowance.” We’d need to hear it directly from her, otherwise we’ll never know whether it’s true or not… I agree that being a “No. 3 papa” doesn’t earn much respect as a hunter. ＞Would a Premium Black girl choose Kamihikōki-san over a high-allowance papa like me, on her own? That’s the crucial point. And I don’t think it’s a matter of choosing between the two; I think she can only choose one. It isn’t simply about what she places more weight on. She has probably been showered with attention from many high-allowance papas—even before papa-katsu—and has plenty of experience. She can easily identify and filter for someone compatible with her. Based on that experience, her priorities will be clearly defined. I can understand why Make-Otoko-san and other high-allowance papas want to make a clear distinction between themselves and Premium Black beauties who can’t be won over with a pay-per-meeting allowance of five. If I were in the opposite position, I’d want to think the same way: “You guys couldn’t possibly get her.” In reality, though, there are women who won’t be swayed or won over even by considerably more money. When a woman like that has been waiting for a papa like Kamihikōki-san, it’s a perfect match. For a man who doesn’t want to win a woman over with money alone, there’s no need to go out of his way to proclaim, “She’s a beauty none of you can have.” Since money and allowance alone can’t win her over, there’s no need to emphasize it, no fear of losing her to someone with more money, and no need to compete over allowances. That sense of security lets both people sink even deeper into each other. I may be gushing a little too much… ＞In any case, I think you should make this woman an offer. She’s a B type leaning toward A, and there’s no doubt she’s valuable enough to appear only once a year, if that. A woman leaning toward A is more valuable than one leaning toward C. She may also be less likely to be swayed by money—but we won’t know until we meet her. And I think my favorite girl is still a level above her. (If nothing else changes, I wouldn’t make this girl an offer; I don’t think I’ll ever meet another girl like my favorite, at least for now.) Hmm? If I’m going to make an offer, I should delete this part. ＞Once Kamihikōki-san manages to push aside the other high-allowance papas and become her No. 1 papa, I’ll make her an offer and ask her myself. “I might get too busy seeing my favorite girl and become unable to meet you, so let’s make it a monthly arrangement.” Then, during that time, I’d meet this girl often and aim to become her No. 1… That’s a devilish invitation. Also, when I said, “I think she can only choose one,” I meant that a woman who places greater weight on money can only choose a high-allowance papa, while a woman who doesn’t care as much about money will choose based on other factors. And in Make-Otoko-san’s case, where they meet once a month or less, that’s an unusual situation in which either option is possible. It doesn’t necessarily mean she chose him; there’s simply no reason for her to turn him down. Generally speaking—or ideally—I think the relationship should continue with someone you lose interest in making or accepting offers from because you’re so satisfied with each other. So being someone’s one and only, or simply the best, should be enough… Is it just Make-Otoko-san’s personality that makes him value “objective” Premium Black girls, “objective” generous papas, and good papas? Are you asking people to objectively assess your personal level of satisfaction and happiness? It makes me think you may not be very happy. If you’re truly fulfilled, I don’t think you’d care at all what other people think. ＞Early-san Thank you for the calm, very Early-san-like comment. ＞“It’s really damn annoying, and I’m like, ‘Huh?’ It’s honestly so cold, haha.” That could even be taken as a compliment. In a question box, anyway… In any case, which is better: the current star ratings, which rise quickly, or the old system where almost everyone had three stars? Also, I had absolutely no idea when Make-Otoko-san sleeps or what hours he keeps… And: ＞Once I become her No. 1 papa, I’ll make her an offer and ask her myself. Well… once someone becomes No. 1, she may have already left the club, meaning you can’t make her an offer anymore. Even if it’s only hypothetical, that could happen… I’ll leave my exchanges with Make-Otoko-san as they are for readers. If you’d rather I remove them, let me know. ＞Early-san If someone of Early-san’s generation keeps growing at this rate, there’ll be no room left for the rest of us to live. Your thirties and forties are when you can experience and enjoy the greatest highs and lows of life. Once you reach your fifties, you have no choice but to seek stimulation from the energy of people in their twenties and thirties—not just from the opposite sex.