I think I’ll quit when I can’t get it up anymore, even with medication. As long as I can, I don’t think I’ll be able to stop.
I get out of breath during sex, and I quit smoking because I’d be disliked if I smelled.
Even if my face isn’t attractive, I can work on my body, so I’m weight training to build a physique that makes them want to be with me again. I’m aiming for a lean, muscular build.
I’ll keep working on anti-aging and extend my papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) life for as long as possible.
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I quit the club after meeting someone wonderful.
I never imagined I’d end up doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan).
Part of me thinks it would be wonderful to meet someone I genuinely like in my everyday life, but another part of me feels that may never happen. So for now, I don’t have a set end date.
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In my case, I’m seeing a wonderful papa (a male supporter), so I’m not doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) in the sense of looking for new papas.
I don’t know how long I’ll continue this lifestyle, but I feel like my relationship with my current papa will last for quite a long time.
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I haven’t decided yet, but if things continue with my favorite woman, I do feel that, out of consideration for her—even though she hasn’t asked—that I should probably leave the club soon. So I imagine I’ll either withdraw after a little while longer or switch to the Standard plan and continue only with her.
For a woman, I think marriage is the natural time to stop papa-katsu, and the point when her papa gives her his wholehearted blessings and the relationship shifts to simply being friends. Except for special papas, that’s usually where contact ends as well.
As for Uniba, quitting early is one option if she finds a papa she can truly feel safe with and trust. On the other hand, she may choose to interact with lots of papas, so I think it really depends on her perspective.
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When to Leave the Club
I’ve continued to have great relationships with the men who reached out to me through the club, and at the same time, I’ve met even more wonderful people in my everyday life.
As I went through each day, being registered with the club gradually became less meaningful to me, so I decided to leave.
As for papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I think I’ll slowly fade out when I get so busy with work that I no longer have much time—and I stop feeling that sudden desire to see the men I’m currently seeing.
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For now, I’ll probably keep going until I retire.
That said, I have a few regulars I’m close with, so new offers have dropped to less than half of what they were at their peak.
Even if I gain more regulars and new offers eventually drop to zero, I’ll probably stay on the platform at the standard level as a backup in case I ever part ways with them.
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I’m Potassium (a female member).
When I’ll know it’s time to leave my club:
○ When I can no longer balance it with work
○ When I’ve overcome my trauma
○ When I get bored or start finding it too much trouble
Well, I’m barely active these days anyway, so practically speaking, I’ve already quit....
Just my personal opinion.
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I also make it a rule not to send out new offers while I’m seeing someone, so it’s been four years since I last made an offer—I might as well have left the club.
Anyway, I guess it would be when:
- I run out of money
- I start getting turned down when I ask to meet
- I get sick, including an STI
- I’m no longer able to use the service?
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For me, I only make a new offer when I’ve ended things with someone, so as long as I’m still seeing my current companion, I won’t make any new offers.
So if things continue smoothly with the person I’m currently seeing and there’s no sign of us parting ways when it’s time to renew, I might leave the club.
That said, if my frustrations with the club’s management build up, I might quit midway through anyway（笑）
I haven’t decided when I’ll stop papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) altogether. It depends on how I feel and what I want, so I won’t know until the time comes.
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① After I’ve been seeing a wonderful man for a few months.
If I quit right after we start seeing each other, we might break up for some reason at some point.
② When I stop receiving offers.
③ If the staff stop liking me… Once they do, I won’t receive any more offers.
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Sorry for the male perspective.
For men, I guess they tend to quit when:
- They run out of money
- Their wife finds out, if they’re married
- They end up with the woman they truly love
Those are probably the main three.
There was a guy in Nagoya—what was his name again? I can’t remember, haha—who became close with a virgin woman from Universe and eventually left the club. I think they may have even entered into a common-law marriage.
It’s a lovely story, so I’d love to hear what happened afterward.
For women, graduating points seem to be things like:
- Getting a boyfriend they’re completely devoted to
- Getting married
- Paying off their debts
But every now and then, there are girls like my ace who declare that they’ll never leave me, even if they get a boyfriend, get married, or have children.
I have two monthly arrangements who say they’d still want to see me even if they had a child.
Also, I recently started liking someone else, and the timing seemed right, so I suggested to one girl that maybe we should break things off. She agreed at first, but her boyfriend was so bad at the adult relationship (intimate) that they broke up almost immediately and she came back to me.
I think this girl will probably stay with me for years too.
My personal goal is to limit myself to four monthly arrangements or fewer.
Two are already set, and I’m currently trying to win over one more woman, so I’m gradually narrowing things down. But I have a disease where I can’t stop making offers to new women, so I’m hoping the girls will report me and get me permanently banned, haha.
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