I’d like to make a woman squirt! What should I focus on to make it happen? Also, I’ve heard that some women squirt just from having an electric massager used on their clitoris—is that true?

Women are easier to make squirt when they’re standing. I’ve hardly ever met a woman who couldn’t squirt while standing. One finger is enough. There’s a spot near the vaginal opening that triggers squirting. I keep the first joint of my middle finger locked and only move the second joint. Women generally fall into two types: - Those who squirt when stimulated toward the front - Those who squirt when stimulated straight toward the abdomen Try having her stand, and once you get a feel for how to make her squirt, try it with her lying down. Using just a finger makes it harder, so it’s easier if you use the fleshy part below your palm together with your middle finger, stimulating as if you’re “sandwiching” the area. Once a woman squirts for the first time, her brain remembers, “I can squirt,” so the second time is easy. Some can even greet you with a “hello, squirting” as soon as they enter the room. In adult videos, they use two fingers, right? That’s slightly different from squirting, so please don’t imitate it. Before filming, they drink a large amount of a special tea, then start filming while holding it in instead of going to the bathroom. The actress basically relaxes herself and urinates (not squirting) in sync with the male performer’s fingers. Some actresses don’t understand the sensation and simply don’t squirt. To sum up: - Use one finger, along with the fleshy part below your palm. - Until she gets used to it, have her stand with one foot on a platform—like a dog peeing. Those are the two key points. When you make her squirt with one finger, it doesn’t hurt; it feels good, so she’ll enjoy it. With two fingers, on the other hand, many women find it painful, so please stop doing that. I’m not interested in virgins, but I love being a woman’s first squirting experience or first vaginal orgasm—and I’m good at both.

Rather than squirting, it’s definitely better to work on your technique and give someone a convulsive orgasm. Men can squirt too, so once you experience it yourself, you’ll understand the difference. By the way, it’s possible to squirt without ejaculating… First, you should experience squirting yourself.

I’d like to make a woman squirt! What are the key points to focus on? ☆ Start by going to a sex-work establishment and asking the staff to introduce you to a woman who can squirt. Have her teach you the basics. I don’t really recommend trying this through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan). If you’re inexperienced, you’ll only end up being disliked. Women in papa-katsu aren’t your test subjects. I’ve also heard that some women can squirt just by using a vibrator on their clitoris. Is that true? ☆ I can squirt with either hands or a vibrator, but only when the person is skilled. First, go on a one-year “squirting warrior training journey.” I’ll say it again: women in papa-katsu are not your test subjects.

It depends on the woman. An electric massager probably feels good, but if someone inexperienced presses it against you when you’re not even wet, it’ll probably just hurt. I once watched a how-to video and practiced the finger technique, then tried it on my ex-wife—but I couldn’t make her squirt. After I started seeing women casually, I’ve been with quite a few. Some women squirt like a whale, while others I just can’t make squirt the way they do in adult videos. If you’ve never actually made a woman squirt, I’d recommend first having an encounter with an adult-film actress or a woman with plenty of experience squirting and learning from her.

Idiot, lol. If that’s what you want to try, go to a sex-work service or find an AV actress who offers that kind of option. Don’t do it with an ordinary woman you meet through a dating club. Women are all different. Isn’t exploring that what makes it fun? If she ends up satisfied, all kinds of “juices” can come out. She might be happy to let out what she’s been looking for, but something unpleasant and bothersome might come out instead. Either way, since the man’s actions caused it to come out, he has to accept whatever comes out. When I put it that way, you’re probably wondering what exactly might come out, right? That’s Potato Boy for you… Seriously, there’s a lot to it, lol. Either way, you can’t get there without mutual trust and affection. For someone who treats women like toys, that’s still a long way off. Keep working on yourself, lol. Taro

This really comes down to compatibility—everyone’s different. For some people, penetration alone is enough, while others need more stimulation with fingers, or toys, to get there. It’s not something you should force yourself to try, so don’t get carried away with “I want to make them squirt!” and end up hurting your partner. More important than technique or toys, I think, is showing consideration.

Women who squirt will do so naturally, and many dislike the often-recommended vigorous fingering, so I think it’s better to avoid that. Some women can squirt from cunnilingus alone, so there are probably women who can do it with a vibrator too. Personally, I don’t do vigorous fingering or use vibrators, so I wouldn’t know.