It’s been two weeks since I registered with Universe, but I’ve only received two offers.
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Looking through the Q&A here, I get the impression that many women receive multiple offers within a week of registering, or even juggle around ten papas (male supporters) each month.
It’s making me feel rather sad, wondering if I’m just not attractive enough.
Do I have no choice but to get cosmetic surgery and start over?
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Based on previous data, around 40% of women receive zero offers, so I don’t think your results are bad.
What about cosmetic work? If it’s subtle enough that no one can tell, that’s fine, but many men actually dislike an obviously artificial look.
Your next photo shoot is your chance, so make the most of it.
- Make an effort to be well-liked by the club staff during the shoot.
- Prepare thoroughly and improve your appearance and overall vibe compared with before.
- Pay close attention to your hairstyle, clothing, and everything else so you’ll be chosen by a papa (a male supporter).
For now, focus on nurturing those two connections. If your rating goes up, you may start receiving more offers.
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I don’t think cosmetic surgery would change things. If anything, you might get fewer offers.
Many women don’t receive any offers at all, so having two offers already suggests that you have a certain level of appeal.
Also, it’s a matter of probability: naturally, the more offers you receive, the better your chances of meeting someone suitable. But some women get offers only from strange or unimpressive papas, so it’s not necessarily true that more is always better.
Just like with ordinary dating, men have different preferences. Someone who finds you exactly their type might come along—and one of those two could be that person.
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Even if you get plastic surgery, it won’t increase the number of offers you receive, lol.
I think you should first work on the belief that surgery will make you more attractive.
If you’ve already received two offers, focus on making those two men happy instead.
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Two dates in two weeks sounds pretty good to me.
There will always be people doing even better, but I’m sure there are also people who aren’t getting any offers at all. If you can continue seeing the men you meet, it’s basically the same as receiving regular offers.
What matters in this kind of relationship isn’t the number of offers—it’s how long you can maintain them.
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It’s not a race.
Do the men who made you offers seem like the type who won’t stick around? What matters is whether you can meet a good papa (male supporter) among those few offers. Does getting lots of offers make you special?
Even if you get plastic surgery, if there’s nothing appealing in your profile, you’ll still only get two offers at most.
Find some great hobbies and work on building a fulfilling career.
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I don’t think everyone is getting that many offers. It’s probably only a small number of people.
And even when someone says they get lots of offers, you can’t really know whether it’s true.
Rather than comparing yourself to others, I think it’s better to value the offers you’re receiving now. Having a high number of offers doesn’t mean much if none of them lead to ongoing arrangements.
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Congratulations on joining!
As Potassium-san mentioned, it’s not about being superior just because you get lots of offers. What matters is how satisfied you are.
By “satisfied,” I mean things like meeting good people, having fun, or achieving whatever reason or goal you had for joining the club. The criteria will be different for everyone, of course…
For now, the best thing you can do is try what’s within your control—upload your own photos, send “You look lovely” messages with a comment, and so on!
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Female member “Potassium” here.
Um… are you competing to see who can get the most offers?
If you had two offers but couldn’t find a good papa among them, and were worried that you couldn’t meet a new papa because you weren’t getting many offers, I could understand that…
But what’s the point of competing over the number of offers?
Two weeks is still nothing—really!
As for the little tips and tricks for increasing your offers, I think you should check the older questions in the Q&A section.
I was just wondering.
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