I’m fine with it too. With a hot pot, the boiling water does provide some degree of sterilization, so I’m even more okay with it.
That said, some people do care. I once met someone through Type A who felt that way, and the moment I heard that, I had no desire to take things any further. I mean, how are you supposed to kiss someone who won’t use their own chopsticks to pick food out of a hot pot? Or are you planning to skip the kissing and just spread your legs?
I’ve ended up like this now, but I used to be an innocent little potato boy who hated things like sharing drinks—that indirect-kiss stuff. Then I started having various kinds of fun, and my standards dropped dramatically. These days, I could probably even lick a toilet. I’ve never actually done it, though（笑）. Apparently, an iPhone screen is dirtier anyway. If you feel like you could lick your iPhone screen, then a toilet should be fine too, theoretically.
As I mentioned before, there was one time I told a delivery escort service that anyone would be fine, and Wakahana came over. I know no one will believe this, but her face looked exactly like his, and her build was just like Wakahana at his peak. She was shorter, so she looked like a five-eighths-scale model—in other words, Wakahana viewed from the second-floor seats. Seeing her come out of the shower with a bath towel wrapped up to her chest was nothing short of a nightmare. But I kissed her and went down on her. I touched her all over. Her skin felt like sharkskin. If I keep talking, this will take another two hours, so I’ll stop here—but that was my war story. There’s basically a Himeyuri Monument built inside my heart.
In that sense, you might want to go through some serious experiences that help you shed your old skin. It’s not something you need if you’re just living an ordinary life, of course. But if you’re going to get involved with a dating club, you’ll gain more than you lose by having those experiences. So I strongly recommend considering it positively.
Taro
It’s actually pretty common for a woman to choose hot pot or yakiniku on the first day.
I’m mindful of how she feels and try to read the situation, but with both hot pot and yakiniku, she usually seems perfectly comfortable sharing food using the same chopsticks or spoon, or tasting each other’s dishes.
