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Sep 23, 2022 02:30
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I understand how you feel, but try to chalk it up to bad luck.
If it was particularly bad, give the club some feedback so other members won’t have to go through the same unpleasant experience.
Let’s move on to the next offer.
I don’t think you can really ask about something that personal. Some people wouldn’t answer even if you did, and it’s not like you can have them undress during the interview.
Other
I do think that’s being selfish.
Akari, I was relaxing after lunch when I read this comment and burst out laughing by myself lol.
You can practically smell the kind of man you’d want to avoid—the type who thinks, “I’m paying, so I can pressure you into all kinds of things, including going without protection.”
Men like this often offer surprisingly little allowance, too…
People with self-harm scars or tattoos are usually easy to spot just by looking at their faces, but…
If you choose someone based on looks alone, you may end up regretting it.
Other
What a spoiled brat.
You sound like a child throwing a tantrum at preschool, saying, “But I don’t wanna!”
Just because you’re paying, do you really expect the staff to make someone do things that practically violate their human rights?
And are you really going to keep making demands as if they’re a given, just because you’ll give her an allowance?
Honestly, you give off strong vibes that you’d casually go without protection too, no matter what you say.
Akari
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
The club will likely interview her about what was written as well.
But don’t you think there’s a limit to what they can actually do?
Even if the club suspends the arrangement with a woman who turns out to be someone you only realize is problematic later, she’s still the kind of person who would make false claims. Maybe it’s better to think of yourself as lucky that you found out sooner rather than later.
Other
Please state clearly in your profile that you’re the kind of person who is particular about things like this. That way, women can decline your offer from the outset.
You can’t strip a woman completely during an interview just to check whether she has any tattoos. Even police body searches these days are handled with more consideration.
As a woman, I also don’t want to deal with someone who thinks, “I’m paying an introduction fee, so…”
Marika
🏅 あなたの味方
お役に立てれば幸いです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe staff
> Are you being picky? Some people care about these things, so please understand.
Well, I suppose it is being picky, but most demands can be met with money. (lol)
How about a special annual fee of 1.2 million yen for the “picky client” option? That’s not an outrageous amount, is it?
In return, I’d like to have visible areas—such as self-harm scars, body piercings, tattoos, and so on—checked without requiring the woman to undress.
As for whether she’s married or single, I could insist on confirming it again when making the offer. If necessary, perhaps I could even ask her to obtain a certificate of singleness?
If the woman objects, I suppose the offer would be canceled.
First, please apply through the staff member you usually communicate with. If they tell you that such a service doesn’t exist, just say that Maezawa wrote about it, and I’m sure the staff will contact me directly.
I haven’t obtained the president’s approval yet, so after the application, I suppose we’d get the president’s approval, have you transfer the 1.2 million yen, and then proceed.
> In particular, whether someone is married or single should be verifiable from their ID.
As Kazu also pointed out, it’s a mystery why anyone would think you can tell from an ID whether someone is married or single.
Marriage agencies require members to submit a certificate of singleness when they join. In other words, marital status cannot be determined from an ID alone.
👨 Male
Universe member
Good question.
I vote for Kamihikōki!
Not Mac, but you should take a good, long look in the mirror.
Other
That sounds pretty demanding. I also get the impression that she has a lot of expectations for the allowance she’s offering.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
Morning workout wore me out… Today was back day.
How much have you written in your profile?
- My M-shaped hairline is getting worse because of AGA.
- I have a beer belly, so during oral sex, all you’ll probably see in front of you is my stomach.
- I don’t get hair removal, so my armpits and private area smell. And, for what it’s worth, I have true phimosis.
- I have seven old silver fillings, and my daughter says my breath smells. But I still want to have a Magikarp kiss.
- I head straight to dates after work without showering, so I might smell of old age during dinner.
If you’ve written that much, I think it’s fair to make the kind of requests mentioned in this question.
Expecting things from someone simply because you’re paying them, without doing anything yourself, may be the opposite of being a gentleman.
I probably spend many times more money with Universe Club than the person asking this question, but I treat the Universe staff with at least as much care and courtesy as I do the women I date.
Isn’t that just common sense? If you don’t act kindly, politely, and like a gentleman toward everyone, your true colors will show in front of the woman you care about.
So, first of all, go to the dentist to have your tartar removed and your old silver fillings replaced. Since body hair can be a source of odor, at the very least, get your armpits and VIO area treated.
Before a dinner date, take a shower at a manga café or somewhere similar. Another option is to join a chain gym and use the showers.
To sum it up:
“Look in the mirror first.”
That’s all.
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
I know it’s your prerogative to be particular, but this is being overly demanding. Your thinking strikes me as bordering on that of a monster customer.
First, understand that the membership club’s introduction fee doesn’t involve verification that thorough.
Also, the person you’re paying is the club, not the woman. The club staff may listen while thinking, “Seriously?” but any woman who gets a sense of your character from questions like these is likely to feel uncomfortable, even if she isn’t the person involved. In the end, you’re the one who loses out.
By the way, can you actually verify whether someone is single or married with a driver’s license or health insurance card? I believe matchmaking agencies require a certificate of singleness.
If you’re going to be that particular, I think you should first make sure you have accurate knowledge.
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Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
Universe member
> I think it should be clearly stated that you’re paying an introduction fee.
It’s because men like this exist that women end up crying out, “They think money can buy them anything.” Of course, I’d never say that directly to the man in question…
This isn’t a brothel, so a self-declaration should be enough.
If I were proofreading it, I’d change it to:
“Rather than saying, ‘I’m paying an introduction fee,’ I think things will go much more smoothly if you understand that you’re in a position where you’re expected to pay one.”
Other
You’re pretty particular about looks, huh? Well, it’s your preference, so that’s fine（笑）
I think it would be difficult to expect all that from a club. They probably can’t even verify whether someone is married or single with an ID, can they? A driver’s license doesn’t say anything like that, after all. I imagine they check whatever is visible within the woman’s interview outfit. Some women may change into outfits provided by the club or even have swimsuit photos taken, so they can confirm certain things that way. But they’re not going to make every woman take off all her clothes for an inspection. Even interviews at adult entertainment establishments don’t go that far.
I think you should broaden your options a little. Look at adult entertainment, hostess clubs, or other dating clubs, too. Basically, it’s a world of lies, deception, and trying to outmaneuver each other, and the man’s skill lies in seeing through it. Compared with that, Universe Club is about as safe as riding a bicycle with training wheels. Yet you’re the one saying things like, “I’m scared it might tip over a little, Mommy.”
Women don’t necessarily place 100% of their trust in the club either, so there may be things they didn’t mention during the interview. If a woman confides something like that in you when you meet, please try to consider how she felt doing so. Of course, if she doesn’t meet your terms, you don’t have to continue. But I’d like you to go through the motions of saying, “I’m glad you told me, but I’m sorry.” That’s very important.
This activity may be legally permitted, but ethically, isn’t it somewhat questionable? You can’t exactly tell your coworkers, family, or parents about it, can you? Even if you make a fuss about some problem and everything becomes public, there’s no one who will come rushing to help you. Be aware that you’re operating in that gray area. Of course, it’s fine to make requests. But in the end, you’re entirely responsible for your own actions. Conversely, I don’t think people who can’t accept that have the right to enter the gray zone. Go have fun in the completely legal and ethically acceptable white zone instead.
Taro