Tips Sep 20, 2022 19:22

I was planning to keep things to around ¥500,000 a month, but whenever someone catches my eye even a little—especially if she leaves a nice comment—I end up meeting her. Then I want to see her again... (I have a relatively flexible schedule, so I do.)

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At this rate, I spend an average of ¥150,000 a month on the club, plus meeting three women a week × four weeks, which comes to ¥600,000. I always have drinks whenever we meet, and there are hotel costs too, so I easily spend over ¥1 million. My work is starting to suffer as well... My family and I weren't particularly close to begin with, but now we barely speak at all... By the way, I'm not rich like Makeotoko or Mac-san. Surely there can't be many idiots like me, right??
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So you mean desire wins out over reason, rightーー? I think it’s good to be ambitious when it comes to work, though… If you’re going to keep being this unplanned, isn’t the near future a little worrying? ( '꒳​' )? You must have asked because you were worried, so hmm… why not cool things down a bit!?
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> How about writing a manga or blog titled “Dating Idiot” or “The Dating Idiot’s Diary”? So, karate and fishing, huh? In that case, I’d love to see something like a “Dating Club Diary” instead of a “Teleclub Diary,” or perhaps “The Way of the Dating Club: The Secret Path of Love.” Come to think of it, the author of *Teleclub Diary* was incredible. Apparently, when he drove to a meeting place, another man who arrived in a foreign car would sometimes get the girl instead, so he pushed himself to buy a Porsche. (It seems he wasn’t particularly wealthy yet, since he had only just started writing manga.) Though I imagine he may have been able to claim it as a business expense. Back then, it was common for people to be intimate without money changing hands, so a man’s looks and car apparently mattered quite a bit. It’s also amazing that his wife openly approved of it, and that even his daughter knew what her father was doing every day.
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You can only spend what you have, so I think it’s best to go all in and enjoy being completely carefree. Once the money’s gone, you can always earn more.
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You’ll ruin yourself, so it’s about time you woke up. Cut it down to about two people and reduce the frequency, too.
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How about writing a manga or blog titled “Dating Fool: The Early Years” or “The Dating Fool’s Journal”? In sumo terms, I’d say you’re still around the sandanme or makushita ranks. Keep aiming for yokozuna!
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The club really does make everyone lose their common sense. If you’re managing to keep it to twice as much, you may still be one of the smarter ones… Maybe you still have some restraint left? How much you should hold yourself back depends on your age. If you’re in your 30s or 40s, you still have your life ahead of you, so the way you live for that future should take priority. If you’re older than that, you’re at an age when you should start thinking about end-of-life planning, so it’s fine to prioritize the club over other things. Once you’re around 60 or older, I think the club can be your top priority. No, otherwise you’ll regret it for the rest of your life.
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I thought making your profile private and preventing likes from coming in might help you feel a little more at ease. What do you think?
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> You don’t come across a stupid guy like this very often, do you? That’s true (lol). When you first join a dating club, it’s easy to go over budget. Eventually, you’ll find a girl you really like, and if you also have the determination and patience, you can keep things within your budget. This has turned into a bit of a matter of mindset, but basically, it all comes down to your attitude… (lol)
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Even just ¥500,000 a month × 12 months = ¥6 million a year sounds like more than enough funding, so there’s no need to be modest—you should be proud! That said, if you keep spending twice your budget, I feel like you’ll eventually hit your limit, so be careful not to overextend yourself. After a while, you may find a favorite girl, and the setting fees you pay the club might start to settle down.
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