Tips Sep 19, 2022 16:27

A question about a woman who is very forward during intimacy.

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Rather than a question, I suppose I feel uncomfortable. At the beginning, she gets on top and starts deep-kissing me, then licks my breasts and also licks my lower body so intensely that it hurts. After that, she gets on top and we have intercourse, then she moves vigorously and stimulates her clitoris herself before moving into 69. Of course, she doesn’t seem to want to use any protective measures. All the things she carries are luxury items, such as Hermès Birkin bags. I get the impression that she has had—or currently has—a wealthy man in her life. She appears well-groomed and has clearly invested in her appearance, though I don’t think she was originally that beautiful. Of course, she has had breast augmentation, and her breasts are hard. I realize it may be impossible to tell from this information alone, but is she a professional? Things get so intense that I feel uneasy about seeing her again. I should probably turn her down, shouldn’t I?
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🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
Try talking to her in a relaxed atmosphere, maybe after having a drink or two. You could ask about her past papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) experience or whether she has worked in the adult entertainment industry. There are men who actually want to be treated that way, so maybe she’s trying her best in her own way. Perhaps she had been complimented for doing that in the past and is trying to make a strong impression with her first offer. Personally, I’d say things like: “Let’s use a condom.” “Going slowly feels better than being too intense.” “I prefer it from behind rather than being on top.” “I prefer taking the lead rather than being pursued.” I’d make an effort with the wording so I wouldn’t hurt her feelings, but I’d clearly communicate what I wanted first and then judge her reaction. As for you, the questioner—you’re the starfish here(笑).
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ダイ
A~Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月1程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s 👨 Male Universe member
I don’t know whether she’s a pro. That said, when a woman takes the lead, it’s often because she’s had enough of being handled roughly by inexperienced men. In other words, she may distrust men when it comes to intimacy. (I’m not saying that applies to you specifically—it’s a general distrust of men.) If you feel uncomfortable, you can simply choose not to see her again.
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負け男
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
I’m a fan of anonymous Q&A boxes, and since everyone keeps saying things like, “I cut off deadfish. I like girls who are proactive ♡” she’s probably been influenced by that, so please forgive her and keep seeing her. She might change her strategy after seeing this question, too. By the way, there are women with firm, large breasts even without implants. It’s rare, but they do exist. One of my monthly partners is like that—a men’s esthetic salon worker. I’m not so naive that I can’t tell whether someone’s had breast augmentation.
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I’m not sure what kind of “pro” you mean—papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), sex work, or the nightlife industry? They seem like someone who’s used to it. I think you should only meet them again if you genuinely want to. Ryo
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If he feels that strongly about you, wouldn’t he be more of a professional? Maybe he has a history of working in the nightlife or adult entertainment industry. If you don’t want to meet him, I don’t think you have to.
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Whoa, I’m seriously shocked. This is Potassium. Are breasts with implants hard?! That’s literally the only part I was interested in, so I’ll keep it brief. I don’t think they’re inexperienced when it comes to sex. (At least, not by the standards of the inexperienced people I know.) That’s just my personal opinion, though.
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カズ
Age: Private 👨 Male Universe member
Are you asking what he’s a professional at? If you don’t want to meet him, you don’t have to.
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