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Sep 18, 2022 09:20
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I can’t help envying people my age who live normal lives.
Today, too, I acted as a substitute for adult entertainment for men. Whenever I’m invited, I end up going to a hotel—even though I don’t exchange contact information or have sex.
I’m always alone. I’m lonely.
I know something is missing, and I think it’s probably an issue with my mental state.
Is anyone else like this?
I feel lonely even when I’m with other people.
4 answers
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
I didn’t really understand the question.
No one else can bring you happiness.
You have to find happiness and fulfillment for yourself.
Why not either work in the adult-entertainment industry and get paid, or do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) and earn an allowance, then spend the money on things you enjoy?
If you can’t enjoy sex, just get a regular job and earn money.
Other
That sounds really tough.
It’s not exactly the same, so this might come across as annoying, but if you need money, you have to earn it. Whether that means getting a job, working in the adult entertainment industry, or doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), anything is fine. The important thing is to take action.
Start with whatever you can do without overexerting yourself or causing too much stress, and keep working at it steadily.
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スペ90以下のひとを厚く囲い込み、一生面倒見て実質一夫多妻で大切にしたい独身です。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
Universe member
Just going to a hotel won’t get you more money. You need to go with someone who actually gives you more.
And if you’re spending money on hosts, you won’t increase your savings—you’ll only keep losing money.
Other
Not someone in the same situation, but… don’t you have any friends or anything?
Are you planning to talk to men at a hotel? You seem to have no experience with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so does asking here mean you’re interested in it?
If so, I think you should start by going to an interview.
Simply saying, “I want money,” won’t make it appear, but taking some kind of action might help you earn more.