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Sep 15, 2022 18:26
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The other day, I went to a clean, stylish business hotel that was much roomier and nicer than an APA Hotel, but he covered my mouth while we were being intimate.
(Apparently it’s because of my voice that I get compared to either a canary or a Ferrari—right, Mac?)
If that’s the case, at least take me to a spacious luxury hotel or a nice love hotel.
Marika
🏅 パパ活歴7年目突入
彼氏/既婚/他パパ/セフレOK/全力応援
Age: 50s
👨 Male
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Why not suggest something like:
“If it’s a business hotel, a love hotel might be more spacious, and we’d be able to make more noise, so it might be better.”
If you don’t have many other papas, or none at all, then I feel it might be worth putting up with it as long as you’re getting an allowance.
Personally, I’d choose a love hotel over a business hotel, though…
Other
I’m Ryo, a female respondent.
If the room is too small, it can feel cramped and make it hard to relax. I haven’t stayed there myself, so I can’t say for sure, but even among business hotels, I’m sure there are other rooms that are a little more spacious. Why not book a room where she’ll feel comfortable?
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お役に立てれば幸いです。
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Some women actually consider APA Hotels to be upscale among business hotels.
That seems to be because the listed rates are over ¥10,000, but those are just the standard prices. In reality, you can use them for daytime stays or find rooms for around ¥5,000.
Even overnight stays seem to be available for around ¥6,000, so they’re really just very typical business hotels.
With that in mind, I think only a small minority of women consider APA Hotels to be upscale. In reality, I imagine more women think, “Isn’t that just a business hotel?”
If you use APA Hotels for business trips, I think you should choose somewhere a little more expensive.
On the other hand, if you need to use a business hotel for work-related reasons, it might be better to meet her at a different hotel.
> Assuming the allowance is average
Wouldn’t “average” mean around ¥70,000? If it’s an APA Hotel, you might want to make it around ¥80,000—an extra ¥10,000.
And I think it would be nice to whisper something like:
“I’d rather give more to you than spend the money on the hotel.”
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
Age: Private
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One of my monthly arrangement partners—one of my top supporters—absolutely loves APA Hotels and refuses to go anywhere else. Since we can’t make any noise, it’s more of an “mmph…” kind of situation, like being intimate in an on-call room. It’s actually fun in its own way.
That said, it’s only okay because we already have an established relationship and he’s very generous with the allowance—well beyond the norm—so even an unconventional hotel is acceptable. Otherwise, unless the woman specifically requests it, it’s better to stop after the first meeting. The rooms are really cramped, and even if you don’t make any noise, I’m pretty sure the sound of him pounding from behind carries into the hallway.
> So would you say the average is around ¥70,000?
Mr. Maezawa, you’re wonderful♡
A～Dまで一通りオファーの経験あり、多くても月１程度でLINEはスケジュール調整のみ、スマートに無理なく長期交際するスタイルです。
Age: 50s
👨 Male
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It’s probably best to avoid doing that on the first meeting.
That said, I think some women wouldn’t be put off if the allowance were generous.
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Age: 60s
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I can’t say whether it’s good or bad—I’ve never been. I’m not comfortable with company presidents.
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Female member Potassium here.
It’s roughly 6.6 tatami mats...
That’s a reasonably spacious size for a child’s room in an average home, but it’s too small to really work as a married couple’s bedroom.
It’s not a dealbreaker, but I’m a little disappointed, haha.
Hotel rooms are more fun when they’re spacious, right?!
They get you all excited٩(*´ ꒳ `*)۶
I like unnecessarily huge rooms, lol.
Or honestly, it might as well just be a closet, haha.
That’s just my personal opinion~
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Even if you mention APA Hotel… I’ve never been there, so I really can’t say much about it. 😅
Other
I wouldn’t be put off (*ˊ˘ˋ*)｡♪:*
But it might feel awkward if we run into someone after leaving the room.
Wouldn’t a love hotel work?
Other
APA Hotel rooms are 11 square meters—functional, but among business hotels, they’re about as cramped as it gets in Japan.
Apparently, the president of APA Hotels once said, “I wouldn’t want to stay in one of those rooms myself.”
There may be some point in making use of that highly functional space with employees or someone you’re already very close to, but as a gesture of hospitality toward someone you’re meeting for the first time, it’s completely out of line.
🏅 倶楽部女性のご主人様に潤いを！
Mパパ、永遠の交際継続中！
B1タイプ〜A寄りパパです！
会う度大人は嫌と感じる方………ご相談ください。
Age: Private
👨 Male
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They’ll probably take quite a bit off the allowance for the first meeting. Also, the amenities aren’t very good, so you may have to put up with quite a lot. If it’s an APA Hotel, though, a love hotel would still be better.
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It depends on the person and the relationship.