I’m a female high school student.

It may seem scary, but I think it could be a valuable life experience. That said, there may come a time when keeping things dinner only forever becomes difficult. A man who’s extremely into you could suddenly change completely, too… And ultimately, you’d be responsible for your own safety in that situation. Hmm… How should I put this? (¯―¯٥) Maybe try making the answerer an offer!

Female member Potassium here. You’re really young. Being young is attractive, sure, but whether I’m a man or a woman, I don’t think I could have an enjoyable conversation with someone who just graduated high school. I’d mostly just listen. I’m confident I could keep a high school or college student entertained in conversation, but honestly, I’d probably start getting bored halfway through. If that’s the case, I’d rather relearn math and have them teach me something like Math III and C—or is that not even called that anymore? The exception would be if she were so beautiful that, even without saying anything, I felt like I was in heaven just looking at her. Then I’d have no problem paying for dinner... An arrangement without intimacy probably wouldn’t last, even if I received an initial offer. I can’t drink, I can’t really talk about drinking, and an adult relationship isn’t an option either... so yeah, it seems difficult. If you have some exceptional knowledge or talent, that’s a different story. But to be blunt, communication skills are often something you can develop through a part-time job, and they’re expected of you once you enter the workforce. If you’re just average, I think it’ll be pretty tough. Working in food service only teaches you to be friendly with customers on a customer-and-server level. Being able to handle a drunk person hitting on you isn’t exactly advanced communication skills either. If you were alone with your father’s friend, could you follow their conversation and keep it lively? Everyone has different preferences, so there’s nothing wrong with giving it a try. It might even be more fun that way! That said, as an older woman, I feel I should offer you some advice so you don’t end up taking your life off track. Also, please don’t do anything irresponsible that causes trouble for the other female members. For a high school student, school is probably almost their entire world, so it’s rare to find someone mature enough to think about the social impact of their actions and behave responsibly... Though, someone like that probably wouldn’t be doing papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) in the first place. Sorry if this sounds like a lecture, but you won’t know until you try. Just make sure you consider the other person’s feelings, whatever you do. Well, that’s just my personal opinion.

Paper Airplane, I’m in! (LOL) Daughters are adorable, aren’t they? I don’t have one myself, so I find them especially cute. Once you join, send reverse offers to everyone and let them spoil you… Especially Loser—make it “dinner only!” (LOL)

Oh no, I really hope that isn’t my daughter. When we’re out, she keeps calling me “Daddy” over and over and dragging me around everywhere, so this isn’t some kind of rehearsal, is it?? I’m turning pale... Hmm? No one’s ever called me “papa” through papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), so I guess I’m safe...

I like women who are dinner only (no intimacy), so I may make you an offer. To be honest, I don’t think an 18-year-old could keep me entertained with dinner only, but maybe you’re a genius. If I come across you, I’ll make you an offer after next April. By the way, women who are confident in their communication skills would never write something like: “An adult relationship (intimate) = compensated dating” The ladies here will tear you apart, so you might want to be careful with your wording :(´◦ω◦｀): *shudders*

Although the legal age of adulthood has been lowered to 18, high school students cannot register, even if they are legally adults. Please register after April, once you have graduated. (You cannot register during March, even after your graduation ceremony.) > Even if I have no experience with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), can I meet a wonderful papa (male supporter) member? Everyone starts out inexperienced. In fact, I think many men are actually happier when a woman has no previous papa-katsu experience. That said, more important than whether you have experience is whether you click, have good conversations, and enjoy spending time together. Those are the people you’re more likely to build a long-term relationship with. > If possible, I’d like to keep things to dates such as dinner and avoid being led into a physical relationship like compensated dating. If you’re a virgin, I think it’s perfectly fine to feel that way. However, if you mean that you’d be comfortable being intimate with a boyfriend but don’t want to be with someone you meet through a dating club, I don’t think your relationships with men will go very smoothly. You still have some time before graduation, so it may be helpful to think about what kind of woman you would want to date if you were a man.