A question especially for the women who answer here.
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Regardless of whether the allowance was high or low, could you tell me what made your best papa (a male supporter) the best, and what made your worst papa the worst?
I just don’t want to make women feel uncomfortable, so I’d like to use your answers as a reference going forward.
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As long as he’s a papa (a male supporter), you can’t really separate him from the topic of allowance.
Like everyone says, the bare minimum is someone who doesn’t give you any allowance. Trying to go without protection is another common deal-breaker.
A good papa is someone who likes me, makes me feel comfortable when we’re together, and is kind.
He has plenty to talk about, shares some of my interests, and is simply fun to be around.
I agree with everything everyone has written. I think the best kind of papa is someone who makes me feel, “I’m the one having so much fun, yet I’m still receiving an allowance—I almost feel bad.”
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The Best
・Kind, not just on the surface
・Incredibly considerate
・Remembers even the little things, like when I mention that I like ○○
・Not self-centered
・Makes time to see me even if it’s just for tea, then gives me money saying, “Thanks—this is for your transportation.”
・I feel at ease just being next to him
・Doesn’t flaunt his impressive career or extensive connections
The Worst
・Keeps wanting to skip protection
・Puts his self-centered demands first
・Searches online for information about my family and job, then tells me what he found
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【The Best Papa】
・We have good physical chemistry (he’s not self-centered)
・A clean, well-groomed older man
・A monthly arrangement
Maybe it’s how I write my profile, but I often get offers from papas who want to focus on just one person. Most of them were genuinely sincere and wonderful.
To be blunt, I feel like I’ve simply continued seeing the one who gives me the most generous allowance. I’m stating it matter-of-factly, but the result is that I’m extremely happy.
【The Worst Papa】
・When I turned down an adult relationship, he posted my personal information online, calling me a “prostitute” and saying things like, “She lowered her price to 30,000 yen and sells her body.”
The worst papa was a fairly prominent doctor, so my impression of doctors who do papa-katsu has definitely gotten worse...
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I’m Ryo, a female respondent.
**A good papa (a male supporter)**
- He really likes me and is always considerate of me.
- He gives me my allowance upfront.
- We don’t have a monthly arrangement, but if we agree to a certain number of dates per month, he keeps his promises.
- He gives me practical gifts that I actually need.
- He understands that using protection is basic manners and always does so.
- He listens to where I want to go and what I want to eat, and takes me there.
- We’re sexually compatible, and we can both enjoy ourselves comfortably and have fun without it being one-sided.
**A bad papa**
- He tries to have an adult relationship (intimate) without offering any allowance, or for only 10,000 or 20,000 yen.
- He wants to do it without protection.
- He wants sex to last four to six hours and wants to do it repeatedly. (Though it’s fine if he’s a papa I really like.)
That’s what comes to mind for me right now.
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The Perfect papa (a male supporter)
・Incredibly kind and genuinely considerate
・Fun to be around
・Likes me and treats me well
・Takes me wherever I want to go
・Offers a monthly arrangement so I never feel insecure
・Gives me gifts I want
・Not possessive, but still cares about me
・Handsome inside and out
・Takes me out for delicious meals
・Listens to my problems and gives advice
・Can enjoy an adult relationship (intimate) together
The Worst papa
・Keeps wanting to have unprotected sex
・Doesn’t give me an allowance
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A good papa is someone I can naturally get along with and feel comfortable around!!!
Maybe they were just holding back, but ideally, I want a relationship that doesn’t feel stressful♪
A bad one is a stalker……
Someone who digs into every little detail or plays mind games with me? …
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Best papa (a male supporter)
A kind one who gave me an allowance of 10.
When I mentioned that my water heater had broken, he brought a contractor with him and had it replaced for me.
Another one noticed there was no air conditioner at my new place and had two installed for me.
Worst papas
The guy who tried to force me to do it without protection and without giving me any allowance.
The guy whose first meeting was at Tully’s Coffee.
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I’m really fascinated by “Mr. Loser,” who keeps going on about his own theories regarding what makes a good papa even though the questioner went out of their way to say, “Especially female respondents.” But maybe he’s simply the type who seems to listen to people without actually hearing them, lol.
I bet Mr. Loser’s conversations with women over dinner would revolve entirely around working out and how much better he is than other papas, lol.
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Sorry for answering as a man.
It’s simple: if you avoid doing the things she probably wouldn’t like, you can become her favorite papa.
- Making the dates too long
- Having body odor or bad breath
- Trying to go to a hotel without discussing the allowance
- Paying the allowance afterward
- Increasing the number of adult dates as soon as you switch to a monthly arrangement
- Developing genuine romantic feelings
- Sending long LINE messages, sending lots of them, and pressuring her to reply
- Being overly well-endowed and taking too long to finish
- Trying to walk around town with her
- Speaking too casually to waitstaff
- Giving unsolicited, condescending life advice
- Telling her not to have other papas or a boyfriend
Try making your own list along those lines.
If you simply avoid these negative behaviors, she’ll make you a favorite on her own.
Dating clubs are fundamentally based on allowances, and they aren’t places to look for love. Keep that in mind, and you’ll have a much better club experience.
P.S.
Of course I’d change my persona in real life. There’s no way I act exactly like the character I play in my answers.
I’m a highly trained ○○, after all♡
P.P.S.
The question “How can I become a favorite papa even if my allowance is low? Female respondents, please” might actually be more interesting.
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