This isn’t a question, so please delete it.

If you want something deleted, please don’t post it in the first place. Deleting things has started to feel like too much of a hassle, so I’m beginning to wonder if I should just abandon the Q&A site altogether. If you enjoy trolling, then go ahead. Eventually, I’m sure there won’t be anyone left answering questions—but that’s what you want, isn’t it? I wish I could create another Q&A site with restrictions on question submissions by IP address, cookies, or device identification, as well as banned-word filters, where anyone could delete questions, and move over there. Also, at the recent Kida talk event, one of the respondents said to Kida, “The Q&A site has the most traffic, right?” Kida gave some strange response like, “Uh… yes… I suppose…” So I looked into it, and apparently its traffic has already fallen to third place. Well, I suppose that’s only natural after being bombarded with such bizarre questions for over a year.

Meeting women lifts my spirits and fills me with gratitude for all the women in this world. That feeling, along with the emotional space it gives me, creates a positive cycle where women feel comforted, have fun, and leave happy. And it’s not just with papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan)—meeting women doesn’t take energy out of me. If anything, they naturally give me lots of energy and happiness in return.

I’ve said this many times, but the source of both energy and mental strength is physical stamina. That’s why I work out first thing in the morning, then go running at lunchtime. I run at a pretty fast pace. I prioritize strength training and running over business, and when I talk about this with the wealthy people around me, they all nod and say: “Exactly.” You should work out every day, too. Go running as well. Physical stamina comes first. That’s all!

Female member Potassium here. Oh, am I not wanted here…? Even so, it’s important to have that weed-like fighting spirit and show up anyway, right?! ‼️ When it comes to papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan), I may be a little out there—or maybe even an extremist—but I’ll share my thoughts. I have a pretty fragile mental state myself (firm tofu? Maybe silken tofu?), but I try to answer while managing my emotions, keeping these things in mind: I want to be someone others can see as valuable. I want to enjoy life. To live happily, I want to learn from other people’s ways of thinking, including criticism. I do try to stay true to my own feelings. However, when a question is particularly hard on me mentally, I learn different perspectives from the other responders’ answers. (Thank you, as always.) If a question makes someone uncomfortable or amounts to personal attacks, I’d rather redirect those attacks elsewhere… Because it isn’t enjoyable when the same question keeps coming up and many people end up reading it and feeling offended. It’s even worse when it makes sweeping generalizations. Even if that question upset you, please think of it this way: “So there are people who think like that.” “Is this what happens when someone can’t meet the kind of man she wants?” “Too many women have unrealistic dreams about doctors’ incomes.” “Women in papa-katsu are simply choosing men based on their professions without doing enough research, then complaining that the allowance is too low.” Other people are other people, and you are you! No matter what someone does for a living, simply working hard, staying grounded, and earning enough to support themselves is impressive. It has nothing to do with whether they’re a doctor or whether their annual income is high or low—that’s what I believe. So, questioner, you are more than respectable enough. Please be confident in that!! As long as you don’t become overly confident, you can be wonderful regardless of how much money you have or how old you are. (That’s just my opinion.) After all, you’ve made it through all the ups and downs of life to reach your current age. The only thing added in papa-katsu is the money aspect. I don’t believe papa-katsu is only about money. Women can earn money too if they really put their minds to it, and there are plenty of people who work their way up from the very bottom. Since you seem to be using a dating club, please meet a wonderful woman who can bring you comfort. And I hope she’ll show you a different world. With my best wishes.

To begin with, I feel that hospital-employed physicians are paid far too little for their labor, skills, and expertise, leaving them exhausted both physically and mentally. The working environment for healthcare professionals—doctors, nurses, medical technologists, pharmacists, and others who take their work seriously—is still very harsh. I feel it’s important to have some way to relieve that stress. Those who go running in their spare time, have hobbies of some kind, or really love spending time with their families seem to be able to switch between work and their personal lives. I feel like I never get a break, and work or studying is always on my mind. But by surrounding myself with plenty of things, places, and people I love, I try to put myself in a position where I can keep smiling. Since COVID began, various self-proclaimed “medical professionals” have been saying all sorts of things, but I truly believe conditions on the front lines are extremely difficult. Please, at the very least, make sure you have a place where you can relax and breathe. Akari

I haven’t answered your earlier question, but I get the impression that hospital-employed doctors work very long hours. Since it also involves dealing with patients, it must be exhausting… It’s a job that requires a lot of energy. I have the utmost respect for them. A man who is humble with women is even more appealing. There’s a difference between being self-effacing and being humble, so I hope you can build a relaxed relationship with your papa-katsu women at a comfortable distance, without forcing anything. Rather than getting your hopes too high just because it’s an exclusive dating club, I think it’s best to approach it with the mindset of simply making a young female companion to have tea with. (If you’re worried about the allowance, keeping the dates short—around one or two hours—might be a good idea.) Best of luck.