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Sep 10, 2022 22:55
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Some people are 60 but don’t look like old men at all, so these days I don’t even ask or worry about their age.
Hmm… but the opposite happens too, right? Some people are in their 30s but look like they’re in their 60s…
Maybe because I’m a caregiver, I don’t consider someone an older man unless they look really frail.
Other
There are various factors, such as the woman’s age and whether she prefers older men, so it’s difficult to generalize.
Regardless of their true feelings, women who do papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) may be more likely to prefer older men. And since money is involved, they’re less likely to treat you like an old man. But thinking that means you’re not actually an old man is just wishful thinking.
People often guess that I’m a little younger than my actual age, both in everyday life and in papa-katsu, probably because my skin still looks fairly youthful—but half of that is likely just flattery.
Other
Every man who does papa-katsu (compensated dating in Japan) is, without exception, an older man.
There are only good older men and bad older men.
Give up trying to look young and aim to be a good older man.
🏅 プロおぢ。ほんとはプロパパと名乗りたいけど名乗るほどの実力がない名古屋の汚っさんです。
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If a woman sees herself as an older woman, I don’t think she’ll consider a man “old” no matter how many years older he is.
On the other hand, if she thinks of herself as a “girl,” then a man ten years older will probably seem like an old guy.
Personally, I don’t mind being seen as one. That’s not what I’m competing on. Once you become an old guy, all you can do is compete with:
Money × composure
If you become a completely different kind of creature from young, handsome guys, you won’t be compared directly—and every now and then, you might even beat them.
One of those top guys is apparently starting to fall seriously for me. (Which top guy?)
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It depends on each woman and the man she’s dealing with.
For example, a woman around 20, a woman in her early 30s, and a woman in her late 30s will probably each have a different idea of what age counts as “an old guy.” That should be pretty obvious with a little thought.
You should realize how foolish it is to lump all women together.